Am I being unreasonable not wanting to see boyfriends parents on Christmas Day?

Antonia1991
Boyfriend and I have been together just over 2 years.

Last Christmas him and I spent Christmas Day with his parents, which was lovely and I genuinely enjoy seeing them. I didn’t manage to see my mum on the day because she was shielding due to Covid.

This Christmas Day, him and I are working a 13 hour shift together
(0630-1930 hrs).

We’ve just got into an argument because he mentioned wanting us to go round and see his parents after we finish work in the evening for food or coffee, and I said I probably wouldn’t feel up to it after work (I’m back into work Boxing Day at 0630 for another 13 hour shift).

I asked him why couldn’t he go and see them without me, which didn’t go down well.

I suggested seeing them on our day off after Boxing Day, which he also wasn’t happy with.

If I knew it would only be for 30 ish minutes, I wouldn’t mind so much just popping round and seeing them. But his ‘quick visit’ turns into hours.

Am I being completely unreasonable? How do I meet him half way?
Am I being unreasonable not wanting to see boyfriends parents on Christmas Day?
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