well I've been with my wife for over 9 years. our relationship is very good. we get along great. we have the best sex ever. there's no complants. but the question I have is why do I always find myself cheatin on her so much? does this mean that I don't love her or that I don't care for her? I don't get it. I know if she did this back to me I would die! so anyone please give me some feedback thanx.