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Try to make connections while you are still in school, even just platonic friends who might be able to introduce you to someone. In addition, you will have to conquer your nervousness and try asking girls out. Practice and just do your best. Ultimately, you have nothing to lose- remembering that may help. And later after you graduate, you may meet someone through work, a volunteer activity, a club, friends, etc. Don't build it up in your head as something big and scary- try to relax and take it a step at a time. Good luck!
I have no female friends. It is big and scary though
Even male friends may be of use to you here. And it is big and scary in a way, but it also isn't. Trying for a more relaxed mindset may help you. Don't sit here telling me it's scary- that won't get you anywhere. Instead, think about what you can do and give it your best shot. There is no easy way out, no magic potion, no genie in a lamp you can rub. Everyone who is happy in a relationship got where they are by trying and working for it.
You're going to have to face your fears and ask a girl out. If you want a better outcome in life, your going to have to change your thoughts and patterns. Think positive, act positive, and live positive. Getting a girlfriend is not rocket science, all you have to do is put forth an effort and you'll increase your chances greatly.If you have severe anxiety get it checked out, you may need medical attention. Good luck.
It seems like rocket science. It is hard
Because you're making it that way.
It really is though
What part is hard to you?
I guess when you get beyond saying hi, I can't make the step after small talk so therefore I can't get to a point where I can ask her to hang
You don't have to ask her to hang right then, you can get her full name and hit her up FB or ask her for her digits, because some girls want to develop a level of comfort before thay will hang with you. When making small talk do you compliment, flirt, and make them smile/laugh?
Not really it is more like how she is doing and stuff
Well start doing the things that I mentioned, Compliment her, it could be her eyes, hair clothes, or smile etc. Compliments not only give off a positive energy, it's also a subtle way to flirt. If you meet her at school, ask her about her major or interests, ask open ended questions to keep the convo going, and to know more about her.
She does have pretty eyes
Well tell her that.
Is that nt creepy.
Dude, complimenting a girl is never creepy. By all means don't say it out of the blue, just say it when having small talk with her. Don't say the word "pretty" though, tell her that her eye are beautiful.
Can I have a example of how to slip it in a convo
Well I usually will ask them what color eyes do they have, before they answer I'll say a color that they're not, usually they'll smile and tell me the real color, then I'll say how beautiful they are.
Shouldn't I be able to see her eyes though.
Yes, of course. Just say a color similar to the color that they are.
What is similar to blue.
How long have you known this girl?
not too long really.
OK, so start complimenting her. Just say someting like "you know I never told you this, but you're eyes are so beautiful to me." It doesn't have to be poetic, it just needs to be sincere.
That seems creepy
Maybe it is, but things like that has always worked for me. Just be yourself and say it however you feel comfortable saying it.
I don't know how to be comfortable
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