Apparently, the origins of love being mentioned was in the time period that women were unequal to men and if they were brainwashed with the idea of "true love" they would be less reluctant to marry someone, thinking that they would be so wonderful and perfect. So which brings me to question. If we were not brainwashed to love someone, would we actually give a thought to having monogamous relationships with 'love' in them? Or was it a cunning man who's plan worked to coax his daughter into marriage without complications? Both men and women can answer.