Why won't my ex boyfriend leave me alone. I say mean stuff to him and tell him that I don't want him anymore. He says that not true, and that I still care for him, b,c if I didn't I wouldn't be talking to him or answering his phone calls. But I ask him what dose he want and why won't he leave me alone, and he say( I LOVE YOU, AND I'M NOT GIVING UP, AND ALSO, NO OTHER GIRL IS DOING TO DO WHAT YOU HAVE). But I'm like if that how you feel then why do you be an ass the other times to me that not love at al but I'm sure most of it has to do with us having sex as well. I'm just trying to figure out what's really going on with this guy, dose he really love me or just playing mind games?