Search Results: am i too uptight

Do guys like modest girls?

I would describe myself as a modest person. I'm not very good at flirting, but I only first with guys I'm interested in and I date guys that I really care about- I don't just date anyone. I like to dress pretty modestly...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I loosen up a little bit?

I am way to uptight. I need to learn how to loosen up a bit. I am not uptight when it comes to others but when I do something wrong I get so mad at my self. It destroys my confidence at times too and stops me from having fun.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Do you feel jealous if you boyfriend says sth to a girl friend on internet?

I don't know much of my boyfriends' friends, and he doesn't know my friends too, because we are in distance. When I saw my boyfriend's away message on Skype wrote down Happy birthday to you...(to his girl friend) I feel...

serena18

Xper 5 Age: 39

I fall for the wrong type of guys..

I always fall for the interesting, exciting kind of bad guys. The problem with this is that I'm like completely the opposite of them. People tell me I'm sweet and I do my best at college and stuff. I don't think I'm...

thegirlnextdoorxx

Xper 6 Age: 34

How do I explain to him my true feelings when he won't listen? PLEASE HELP!

Me and my guy were together 6 months. We are opposites, he's very laid back, and I'm very uptight. We were long distance 2 months after we started dating, and he and I had a different view of how to handle it. He wanted...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How to deal with my ex girlfriend?

i dated my girlfriend for 6 months. really cute, very uptight. I'm a chill dude, and didn't have a problem with us being a few hours away for a semester. things were fine, but I just got irritated with calls at 2 AM or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why doesn't my boyfriend stop his habits? Should I leave him?

I'm not going to go on about our relationship, it's great. He's loyal, trusting, and very good to me. There is just one problem, his drinking and smoking habits. He comes from a troubled past, and before we dated, the...

melaniedee

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why do guys have to be douche bags or boring?

ok so this guy is super nice...and average looking..OK maybe a little below average. I tried...i mean I really tried to stay with him but he is so darn boring. I am not into bad boys...i like nice guys...but this...

ltmcneill

Xper 6 Age: 41

Can you relate to this?

sometimes my waves of depression are really hard to handle, but I think I am overcoming them. Every time I get too "uptight" from all my stress, my whole thinking pattern changes and I wind up being stuck in my emotional...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My future mother in law is a very extreme feminist, how can I deal with it?

Ok, I do think women should have equal rights. And maybe it's just me , but I think she's taking it a bit too far. I made diner for her, my fiancé and me last weekend. He asked whether there were still some potatoes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How to be there for him?

Within the last month, I broke up with my long-term boyfriend due to ongoing issues and am currently losing my mother to cancer. Needless to say, I'm a little damaged. I've been talking to a guy for the past few months...

CEliseM2003

Xper 5 Age: 41

Teenage fun...

My psychologist says that I'm taking on too much responsibility for my age, I'm 17. Doctor's orders, "Just don't give a damn." He told me to just be a teenager and let my emotions go with the flow...basically not be so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shy girls, how do you flirt? (or try to?)

There's this girl I like, she is on the quiet side in general but she talks and jokes with most people but with me she is just way too shy and quiet. She teases me a lot, she dissects everything I say and tries to find...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is she testing me and is she jealous?

I'm good friends with this one girl. Recently, we've been hanging out a lot more often and our friendship is getting stronger. However recently, I noticed that she's a lot more uptight around girls I look at. When we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How to attract white females if you're an Asian male?

I am a 21-year-old Asian-American guy and I was wondering how to attract white girls. The reason why is because I don't find Asian girls attractive because they're often too small for me (I'm 6'3") and the ones I've met...

chc0009

Yoda Age: 35

How do I stop tensing up when around guys?

every time I'm around guys that are somewhat attractive, I tense up and make little conversation or become extremely serious which is not me at all, usually I'm very bubbly, and talkative. How do I get over being so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever felt that you constantly do very challenging things, yet not doing well in it?

I've seen many people here who are overly motivated and care a lot about doing extremely well in almost everything, but on the other spectrum, there are people here who are either totally unmotivated, not so uptight,...

Anonymous

(36-45)