Search Results: is she scared of being clingy

Am I over thinking?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months. I have dated many guys and have never felt this way about them. He's the one for me and I do f want to lose him. So at the beginning, I was pretty insecure and jealous. But he...

Susie999

Xper 4 Age: 44

Should I wait for him or should I just assume that things are over?

After 5 months, my friend invited me and this guy i'm seeing on a double date and we went but it was obvious that he didn't feel confortable. Well he told me that we were never exclusive and that he has the right to talk...

musiclover1359

Xper 6 Age: 31

How can I stop standing in my own way and messing it up with every guy?

So I hate myself and I'm so frustrated with myself and my life. Everytime I talk to a guy or hang out with them I fall for them and I think each time he will be my first boyfriend but everytime I scare them away. I try so...

live4love

Xper 7 Age: 32

When is the time to get out before he leaves?

Ok so basically every guy I've been with has started off really great and then either said they weren't into having a relationship, or they just want to be friends, etc, etc and then they leave. I was just wondering if...

live4love

Xper 7 Age: 32

Guys, he never initiatives things. Is he just shy, or simply not interested? Should I contact him first (again)?

I don't know if maybe he is just shy? Because the night we met, his friends had to put a boot in his butt for him to have the guts to come up and talk to me (that's when he actually initiated things), and then again for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, a guy who seems interested but I'm not sure?

This guy I've known for a little over a year has always shown interest. Hanging out with me the entire time we are out with friends. Showing interest in no one else. Texting/emailing me when we were together. We finally...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When is a good amount of time tell him I like him? I don't want to scare him off?

Weve been out on two dates, hangout a few times and went out Drinking a few times with friends also. We had a lot of fun and we have a lot of chemistry and attraction. We have also hooked up a few times now (weve slept...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it too early to tell him I like him? I don't want to scare him off?

We have been on two dates, hangout a few times and went out Drinking a few times with friends. We had a lot of fun and we have a lot of chemistry. We have also hooked up a few times now (slept together). But I am...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I annoying him?

Okay so this one guy i been talking to for about two weeks now is an amzing friend and he awesome. I talk to him about my self harm and suicidak thought and he completly accepts me. But what im thinking is he's getting...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Okay so this one guy i been talking to for about two weeks now is an amzing friend and he awesome. I talk to him about my self harm and suicidak thought and he completly accepts me.

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How to? guys I need advice?

Is it bad for a girl always start a conversation? as in always? How do guys define "clingy"? what is the limit to tell if the girl is being clingy? I like this guy and I told him that i want to know him more. and it's...

notyournormalgirl

Xper 5 Age: 33

Flirting

Do guys like it when?

Don't want to sound too needy or clingy but don't want them to be unsure... Do guys like it when girls are very straight forward about liking them? Like "hey I like you"cause I want to do it I'm just scared of being rejected.

Zurithegreat

Xper 4 Age: 28

You miss him, but you don't want to be clingy, should I text him first?

So I miss my boyfriend (obviously) and I want to text him, I normally wait for him to text me first in order to have a conversation or what-not, cause I don't want to annoy him and scare him off by being one of those...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm so insecure and it's ruining everything?

I've never been able to be in a relationship before because I'm too insecure. Before I thought they just weren't the right guys, and I realized that maybe I'm always searching for the best. But now I like someone and he...

BushBabyBoo

Xper 6 Age: 32

What is wrong with me? What am I?

I am struggling with a weird identity problem. I think (read on) I know who I am, what I can, I am fully aware of my flaws. I don't want to list my flaws or good sides, but people have a very positive opinion about me and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Apparently I have commitment issues.. do I?

Lately I've been getting a lot of shit by family and some family friends about how I need to start thinking about settling down with a guy not necessarily meaning getting married right know because lets be honest I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Help!! Me and my bf are arguing and some bad memories got stirred up?

Over the past few days me and my bf have been arguing, me being worried over a possible pregnancy and venting on him which I shouldn't be doing and I don't know how to properly vent unfortunately. Then some bad memories...

Serenity-chan

Xper 6 Age: 34

Boys, do you like when your girl writes you a letter or it that so clingy?

this is the letter : i want you to know that since the day we met i knew that i had feelings for you. but for some reasons i kept denying it , the reason i did that is because i was afraid , i was scared that the minute i...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys/girls what actions and behaviors in someone you liked scares you away?

after responding to another girls question on how to get a guy to stop liking her, she admited she actually wants to know in order to keep him interested in her. so, I got curious what actually scares guys/girls away....

thewanderingme

Guru Age: 43