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Search Results: lack of confidence fear
How do I help myself?
My dating problem for as long as I can remember has been my own self imagine. It's the reason for my self-esteem problems, the reason for my lack of confidence, and the reason I have avoided asking out girls for fear of...
Anonymous
(36-45) Need help with my insecurity problem?
I am a very insecure person. I lack self-confidence, judge negatively, and have fears of rejection from peers. My insecurity is also reinforced by the fact that I am currently a junior and yet I don't have any close...
Anonymous
(30-35) Trying to understand a player that I'm having an affair with?
I have been having an affair with a guy for four years -the affair is complicated as I've known him and his girlfriend for 20 years - they even came to my wedding! (though I'm since divorced) We started seeing each other...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Why is lack of interest in commitment always interpreted as fear of commitment?
Lots of guys simply have no interest in commitment. For some, it's not ever; for others it's not right now, but in either case it could be based on many things other than fear. However women invariably interpret it as...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Tips for dealing with fear of rejection?
Whenever there's a girl I like the thought will cross my mind "why would she want to date me?" and I'll begin to doubt myself and avoid asking her out because I don't think a girl like that would go for a guy like me. And...
TurbulentDan12
Yoda Age: 36 Fear and anxiety are taking over my life.
I don't know what's wrong with me. I think I might be depressed or bipolar, but I'm not sure. I don't get joy from anything anymore, and I skip out on all sorts of stuff just cause I'm scared of it, even if it's something...
vintagelover92
Xper 6 Age: 33 Is confidence ultimately overrated?
I'm not saying I don't try to be a confident individual... 24/7 I'm trying to be at my best, but as everyone knows, sometimes you have good and bad days. Observing a lot of dating trends and such, especially among my age...
drummerdude25
Master Age: 35 Trying to figure out if I should approach this girl or wait a little more?
Okay I just joined a choir at this church I started going to? Well there are a few girls that I find attractive (there are different choirs and they sing on different weekends. I just happened to end up on her choirs...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is she being flirty with me?
This girl that I work with we work in close environment, so I fear things could get awkward. its just a summer job, so for 3 months then we both go back to schoolio. she has a very bubbly personality, so its alittle hard...
Anonymous
(36-45) What can you do if you have a fear of women but still want one to like you?
I just feel scared women have never really noticed me or really accepted me as a person.I am a nice guy with average looks but lack confidence. I kind of want to meet someone who can accept me for who I am. I just don't...
Anonymous
(36-45) Lack of Self-confidence?
I think I have a self-esteem/confidence issue. I'm 5'4.5", and 115lbs. So I'm not fat, but not the really toned/hot body type either. Everyone tells me I'm skinny, and I don't need to lose weight, but I'm just not happy...
Anonymous
(30-35) This alleged "nice guy syndrome"? is that just a part of my character? or something I should seek to change?
Sometimes my friends introduce me to people with OTT titles as "the nicest guy you'll meet" and "such a nice guy" etc. and often people say "you don't do that, you're the nice guy". Initially I took this on as a...
Anyhow_Anyway
Xper 3 Age: 38 I usually feel apprehensive about approaching women. Do women feel weird when the quiet guy flirts with them?
Girls, if you liked a guy and he seemed interested in you, would you rather him be down to earth and real or a guy who just plays the game and tells you what you want to hear. I ask cause I seem to have issues when it...
Razer
Xper 5 Age: 43 Where can I meet girls like me?
Im currently in college, but the program I'm in literally only has 2 girls in it. I'm a shy guy, and lack some confidence (But its getting better :) ). I don't really have any friends around here, and the ones I do have...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to be more confident?
So I'm 18 and have always struggled with confidence and being myself around people I don't know that well. I always just have this fear that they won't like me for who I am so I am usually just quiet, unless I am...
Anonymous
(30-35) To dye or not to dye them?
I'm 26 yo guy always had a sparse brow and was thinking about maybe getting them dyed (never done that) should I or should I not ---all me friends accept me for who I am but I fear girls don't like guys with the brow that...
Anonymous
(36-45) Can lack of experience leave you SOL?
So I'm 23, kind of a reserved and introverted guy, never had a girlfriend / kissed a girl blah blah blah. I'm not complaining about it. I'm not feeling desperate about it or using it as a reason to beat myself up inside....
sa230e
Guru Age: 39 What should I do if I really need to get a girlfriend now?
I am single I am 20 years old and I have never had a girl friend before. I am shy so I can't talk to girls and I always feel so scared around girls. I can't just talk to them because I always feel so shy, I lack...
Anonymous
(36-45) What do you do when your best friend tells you're ugly?
I have a guy best friend & he told me out of the blue that I am ugly. Over the previous years people consider me ugly because I am always bigger than any girls plus I am fat (not that fat now though). This persisted up to...
amarrafaye
Xper 5 Age: 33 What if Confidence is a Scam?
Did you know that “darkness” isn ’t real? You see, it’s just a word we’ve made up to describe the absence of light. Here’s the real challenge: what if “confidence” isn’t real either? Let’s say you’re in a room...
bobair
Influencer Age: 51 