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Me and my boyfriend was talking last night over the phone about how he hates his job (of 8 years) and wants to try to apply for policing next year
He has told me this goal of being a police before we even started dating
So anyway this is our conversation:
Him - im definitely going to apply for police next year
Me - oh okay nice
Him - yeah. I know i have to do a course first and then have to go to the academy school which is 2 hour drive from where we are
Me - how long does the academy go for?
Him - i dont know.. maybe 4 or 5 months.. gotta check
Me - so i can't see you for 4 or 5 months?
Him - i think we can take weekends off so i can come drive down to see you and all on the weekends.. but does it matter if we dont see each other for 5 months?
Me - ofcourse it matters! Its hard not seeing your partner for 5 months!
Him - but we can communicate everyday?
Me - but you're gonna be staying there.. there's other girls around you
Him - babe.. im going to be focusing on this. Not other girls. Im serious about being a police. And im serious about you.. look im going to tell you.. just dont get your hopes up though.. but if i make it and become a police, thats it.. Im going to ask your parents for your hand in marriage. I would marry you. And anyway if your parents know im a cop now, they will feel more secure.
Me - wait.. wtf?
Him - yes im serious. If i get into cop, my life is complete. I will be settled. I will be ready to get married. So please stick with me. Dont leave me.
So guys, should i be worried about all of this?
Do you think its possible he could be lying about marrying part?
Im just scared that if i can't see him for 5 months and there's girls in the academy, then he's gonna lose interest in me... or we both gonna lose interest
I dont wanna stop him from his dreams and goals though..
He has told me that as soon as he's settled, he would be thinking of marriage and kids later
We been together for over 1 year
But i dont know what to do or think about it all😔😔
by the way im 22, he's 27

Yesterday me and my boyfriend (been together for nearly a year) broke up. He ended things with me because of my behavior. He would call me everyday just to talk to me and sometimes we would talk for hours. But whenever i get angry at him on the phone, I hang up his call and he would try calling back but I would ignore his calls. I have been doing this for months and then he got fed up with me so he came over to talk to me and ended our relationship. When he was breaking up with me, he was sniffing and had tears streaming down his face but he played it cool while talking to me. And then this is what he said:
"Look, I dont hate you.. you didn't do anything thats bad like cheat on me. You are just so difficult. I tried being patient with you but you never changed your behavior. you're just so hard to please. But maybe im just not the right guy for you. And with social media.. Im not planning to delete you off facebook and instagram. But if you want to delete me, then thats your choice. I dont mind if you get another guy and if you upload pictures of you and him. I will be fine with it."
Wtf? Does this mean he doesn't care? He never cared about us and our relationship? If he let me go that easily, that means he never loved me? He used to say he loves me everyday.
Were they all lies?
I thought people that loves someone wouldn't give up on them easily...