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in the beginning, she likes a friend but I don't want it. I want her as girlfriend. I showed my attraction to her, give her attention. int he beginning we are flirting each other and maybe she just want to play around and flirting, and play my feeling.i always succed make her flatering with something sweet like give her flower and one day she walks alone and I puursuing her by running, she looked really flater. I know inside her heart,i made her day.one day I said something that really hurt her feeling. she got upset and hate me. I don't know if that really hurt her feeling adn she won't forgive me. I keep pursuing her, she got really mad, don't want to stay or talk with me. I sent her message that compliment about her new hair, it looks really nice and she looked gorgeous. she never replied my messages and ignore me. The worst thing that she shares apartment with me, so we always bump and meet. the situation is reall awkward adn we just said hey or hi, good morning, no open conversation. it really nuts. I still have feeling for her, but I know I can't change how she thinks about me, just wait time that she wants be a friend again. when we meet and bump together, I always stare to her eyes cause I really like her blue eys, its so adorable but she just looked at other place and don't want to stare me. She is doing lots of bad thing and want to revenge, drop my pride, I never get hurt by what she have done to me. I like her not just about looks, but her character is very unique which I can't find to other girl, I really like her what she is. I still really like her but I know I can't express my feeling for her. I stay quiet and don't talk or open conversation with her cause I know she doesn't like me. I always be there for her when she is in bad situation, I am going to make her comfortable. so guys and girls, I don't want to hear something that to move on. I want your opinion how or what can I do to fix our situation?or do you think if I am ignoring her its a better way to cool down our situation and wait some moment that she comes to me and want talk with me and forgive me. Based on my experience, I know I sometimes being a jerk but it works that girl firt hate you then develop feeling and fall for you. I have similar situation that one girl really hates me but in one year, she changed and being nice and want to have relationship with me. I jsut surprized and said what she is thinking?why? so what I need to do to rule her to develop feeling for me.

In terms of your attraction and relationships with the opposite gender. I always read of this " hardwired to like X" situation or due to people in general using evolution as a reason to like someone. I also have read of people who are heavily influenced by life experiences or society. I gues I just want to know if people choose their partners with an open mind and based on their assesment of the potential mate on an individual basis or if you are pushed to someone due to some "hardwiring"