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I broke it off with my kind of ex about a month ago and I blocked him on my phone. he had real commitment issues, even though he was trying to come back to me really hard after I had ended things with him 6 months earlier before I did a lot of traveling and told him I wouldn't be around anyway. He is really complicated and has said he could fall in love with me, I am "just so incredibly beautiful" and "so smart, you don't realize it even." It's been a few years of our back and fourth, mostly because he was in a relationship since he was just a teenager that ended and left him feeling really, really shitty (according to him when he would be open about it which was RARE and according to his friends, the close ones I have met). Anyway, when we were seeing each other this last time it felt like we were at something close to what we both wanted, but then he started to think I was doing too much and "stressing him out." I got angry about it and ended it, even though I sent him a text telling him I didn't actually want him to forget me (I had said that, it was one of the things he hated me to say) and that I care and wish the best for him. I am going away again for a few weeks after the holidays and am thinking of calling him when I get back. maybe the dust has settled. we have both admitted feelings, obviously, but are having a hard time getting what we want out of the other, and he is not good with talking about feelings. it took a whole fight for him to admit he had been calling me so much because he missed me, that was why. it's hard, but I really do think I love him. I never have a better time with anyone else, and he makes me feel beautiful.

So these days most people sleep together first, or within weeks of meeting someone. Things happen too soon in some cases an the stages of courting and truly getting. to know the person doesn't seem. to happen.

People tend to learn about eachothers bodies before their minds. Fair enough to those who want and have FWBs. Thats their choice but I am talking about dating and enjoying getting. to know someone.

Guys I meet after one date I know I dont know them enough for sex or anything else. I do kiss early on but other stuff doesn't need to be rushed. Most guys seem. to have crazy sex drives and no self control but thats a whole other issue. Thing is if someone wants sex after date two its very obvious they are not after a relationship or any commitment.

I have only met one guy who was patient and decent my first ever bf. An he was just 17 when I was 19. Guys I met after him have all been wasting. my time. Saying they love me for sex, saying they want to move in to get sex, wanting me to sleep over for sex. Had many dates but only with my first bf. An a guy cooked for me one time but even he couldnt. control himself.

I understand humans are sexual beings but why the need to rush it. Guys I've met up with aged between 22-32 have all been wanting sex straightaway but claimed they want a gf. As soon as I meet a guy I dont feel like having sex and do not feel that until I know about them and spend time with them but guys are visual an feel it quickly right?

Out of the 8 guys I've met 7 were too impatient and one was totally patient. So I am uncertain as to whether iwill find a guy with a little bit of patience. I am talking 2-3months max.