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me and my boyfriend was just chillin at his place and we were cuddling and then we talked about our break up 3 weeks ago (he ended things with me coz he felt like he was the only one making efforts and more affectionate and that I always ignore his messages and calls and he had enough of it but I asked for a second chance and he gave me second chance and a week later, we got back together)
this was our conversation:
him - "did you talk to that guy that you used to be friends with after we broke up? he probably knows we broke up and u probably unblocked him and talked to him?"
me - "no i didn't.."
him - "tell me the truth.."
me - "i didn't unblock him.. but i was going to though. but i didnt"
him - "okay.. coz if u did, then that means he's your back up plan. and that you're just fuckin around"
me - "so what if i did tho? I mean i didn't but what if i did? we broke up..."
him - "we broke up for only a second.. if u unblocked him, that means you're not serious about getting back together... oh well.. if you do go talk to him again or any other guys (flirting), and if i find out, there's no second chance for that. i dont care. im going to move on. i have no time for that shit"
me - "soo you're just gonna move on just like that?"
him - "yepp. dont have time for bullshit. this happened to me with my first girlfriend. im not going through it again"
me - "if u move on quickly, means u never had feelings for me"
him - "no its not that.. i mean im not talking about now. im happy with you but if u do talk to other guys being flirty and shit, then im gonna leave. means i deserve better"
Does he not care about us?
Would he really move on quick? do guys move on that quickly?

my boyfriend left his snapchat logged in on my phone and i was been noisys going in and out of his chats i didn't message anyone r anything but i read something and im kinda concsered about it. he was saying sorry for what he was saying (the night b4) he say it was retarded he was just so locked and i read down to c if it saying what he said and she said its fine (didnt say what he said tho) but then he asked if he did anything phisical happened with her she did say no however the night tat this all happend they were away together for 3 weeks on a hoilday both there familys go away together every yr and she told him she liked him a few weeks b4 they went away (he showed me tat). the night he was saying sorry for to her was also the night he told me he loved me. i think he said he liked her and tat he tho he kissed her but he didn't kiss her. now im parnoid about what he said drunk coz i feel its tat he likes her. should i tell him i seen the messages and he will know i was looking at his stuff r leave it knowing he didn't kiss her but did say something

Just to keep the story shortm, im going to bullet point everything.

Met online, talked for nearly a year
We liked each other, but i wanted commitment and he "didnt know what he wanted"
Stopped talking, no contact at all for like 6-months or so
He breaks ice by messaging me on my birthday
And then subsequently slowly starting to message me abit more (I was a little cold at first)
Then i started responding a bit more, thought if nothing else we can be friends i guess (Cause we got on so well)
Been talking again for about 2-months now, and were back to our usual selves (Flirting like crazy, we both definitely have the hots for eachother)

I still have feelings for him, and it seems like he does for me too, but im too afraid to ask him why he's back and what he actually wants. (Dont want to get hurt again, but equally still like him lots)
Best thing this time is that he started talking to me, and he is initiating mojority of the conversations, and seems to be doing the chasing this time
He compliments me a lot, he does bug me a lot too as in a lot of banter, but i give as good as i get, thats why we get on so well

My theory: Why would he come back to the same girl who he knows has feelings for him if he didn't want anything more. Do you think the 6-months or so have made him think about us and made him miss me?

So a question to all the lads out there, if a girl told you she had feelings for you and you freaked out and dissappeared, why would you be back?