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I need advice please... I met a guy at a party in November last year, we spoke on the phone many times until we finally met up in the city on the 4th of January. I hadn’t been in a relationship for 8 years as I really struggled after being with my narcissistic ex... anyway this new guy was really flattering, he insisted on buying me drinks, food etc on every date we went on, then for Valentines Day he bought me an $800 ring and insisted I have it, I’d never been given a ring before so I was blown away! Only thing is he insisted that I must dye my hair black as he said he hates blond hair!! He also hates that I’m friends with an ex from 10 years ago and reckons I’m cheating with him, I am not!! So anyway he’s suddenly gone all hateful towards me in the last few days and accused me of being a shifty con artist for attaining the ring from him and that I must give it back! He said if I don’t that he and his mates will come to my home (I live with my elderly mother and 8 year old daughter) and get it back that way!! I’m terrified and anxious!! He honestly insisted that I have this ring and if we break up it will be something I can remember him with... am I an idiot for accepting his gift? He seems to be mentally ill and hid it well early on!! I also feel that he is most likely a casual ice user too due to his up and down emotions and paranoia!! I said I’d meet him in the city with a friend to give him back the ring but he said I must come alone or else!!! I’m not coping so any advice on what I should do will be appreciated...