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My guy has two women that want him, they are both from his past and both want to be with him. He's told them he's in a relationship yet they both continue to flirt with him and one even tried to lay a guilt trip on him about not talking to her since we got together. When it comes up (and it does frequently) I get anxious and it always starts a long discussion about how insecure I am and how I don't have anything to worry about and always makes remarks about how I talk to people of the opposite sex. The difference is, and I have stated, none of them have said they want to have my baby or that they love me and don't want my boyfriend to tell me they are talking to him.. He says that they both make him uncomfortable but they are both old friends he doesn't want to lose. He does have a big heart and thinks of the latter one as a baby sister that he used to watch over, he'd tried to have a relationship with her in the past but she chose someone else.

I'm so frustrated! the first woman aborted his child without even telling him she was pregnant over 10 years ago and the other one is married with kids yet texted him last night and said it upset her that he let me read her texts. I'm too old to be getting jealous over these women but I still feel it come over me, I don't think he handles them properly at all and he won't take my advice on what to say but instead insists on handling things his way. I feel like he is encouraging them but he doesn't and says I don't know them like he does. I love him and we are committed to each other, I know I have nothing to worry about with him. He's never cheated on anyone and is extremely loyal. I just find it HIGHLY disrespectful that these ladies won't get it through their head what is appropriate and what is not and moreso with him for putting me in this position in the first place by not being more clear with them. Should I just let it go or should I dig my heels in? I'm scared of pushing him away but this is an ongoing issue I don't know if I can really deal with much longer without getting in a major argument and ultimatums being made, which he has stated several times he wouldn't tolerate from me.

I won't be able to confirm for another week or two. Neither my bf or I want kids but I know if I did get pregnant he would take care of me and not leave because of it (We had a pregnancy scare happen before).

Here is a link to my symptoms:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1373075-could-i-be-pregnant-what-is-the-earliest-you-can-get-symptoms-of-a

I would also like to add that today I have started getting really irritabile and I haven't taken my meds for a few days and I am still dizzy and nausous.

My boyfriend and I have been together over a year and have not had sex with eachother yet. Im a virgin and he's not. He really wants to do it and I want to but iv been holding off because im scared of getting pregnant i can't get on birth control at the moment and i dont trust condoms im also scared that we'll break up shortly after and ill regret losing it to him because I love him and I want him to be my one and only. Anyway we have been fighting a lot latley and he says its mostly because of the sexual frustration he has and it feels like we're going to break up at any moment which makes me want to have sex with him less and less. But if I let go of all my fears and worries and just did it would it make us stronger? Would it make things worse? Would his frustration go away? If I did would it be a mistake?