Search Results: sexual tension but not attracted

What does he want?

Okay I posted this in (dating but we'll try here) So I've been friends with this guy for a few years (we talk daily and I'm sure pretty sure he's like my "best" friend), and there's always been a kind of unspoken...

DevilishTendencies

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

What is going on between my friend and I?

Okay so I've been friends with this guy for a few years (we talk daily and I'm sure pretty sure he's like my "best" friend), and there's always been a kind of unspoken sexual tension yet I haven't been available until...

DevilishTendencies

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guys, Deleting out of respect?

My male best friend, whom I am totally in love with, is going through a divorce and I know these things take time. He insists that we are just friends right now because he doesn't know how long his divorce will take. A...

4n6unicorn

Xper 4 Age: 48

Dealing with (sexual/) tension with a colleague that you want to get rid of?

There's a guy I work with that teases me incessantly. He has an answer for every little thing I say, constantly makes fun of me, playfully pushes me, steals my phone etc. At first I thought he didn't like me as a person,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Serious Problem: Fallen for Coworker Does anyone believe the statement "you'll know when you've met the one"?

I thought I'd met "the one" when I first saw him. The cheesy love at first sight feeling. He is now my coworker of almost a year. We had an instant physical chemistry which has gotten stronger. I work in a small office...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I take care of my best guy friend (who I love) after his break up?

X and I have both been attracted to each other since we met but I was in a relationship at the time with his friend. Then we broke up and I wasn't ready to start something with X. Once I was ready, he had a girlfriend...

Horizons14

Xper 5 Age: 30

Society & Politics

Is it possible, or even likely that someone can have a huge crush on more than one person?

I'm not talking about a microcrush, or just being intrigued and attracted to more than one person. I mean when someone makes you feel stupid and "high" and you can't stop smiling around them. Is it possible to have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I want to give up on women but at the same time I don't?

Now everybody say's you have to be attracted to the person in order for thing's to work, but i just don't see the point if I'm lacking in looks. And i can almost argue that attraction is just lust and sexual tension, but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Does my guy friend feel sexual tension with me too?

PLEASE READ AND HELP. I am in a show and I met a 35 year old man (I am 18) and him and I just genuinely seemed to connect instantly. Laughing and smiling. He has complimented me (innocently and appropriately) many times....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

If someone isn't single but goes out of their way to let someone know they're attracted, do they want to cheat?

When people are in a relationship or are married but go out of they're way to attract someone else and look sexually attractive for someone else, and flirt and tell the person things like they like seeing them... does...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Would you act this way towards a woman if you weren't attracted to her? Want to make a move but don't want to be rejected?

I've known this guy for about 6 months. We see each other often in a business environment and its complicated but we don't hang out. He is always complimenting me. m on everything from my eyes to how my clothes look on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, I'm really attracted to this girl but I also really care about my girlfriend. Is this okay and what should I do?

So I have a girlfriend that I care very much about, but the other day I met this girl in one of my classes and we instantly "hit it off" and I could tell that she was into me. But someone told her I had a girlfriend and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does my boss find me attractive?

Been at my job for around two years in a printing company and I really enjoy my work. Anyway, long story short I kinda get the feeling my boss is attracted to me! (And yes, I do like him, he is very good-looking.) I guess...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Caught in a bit of a dilemma?

I really like this girl who's staying in the same hostel as me. She's from New Zealand, and I'm from France. We made out on the first night and she told me that she really liked me too. Now the trouble is that I'm not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating my step sister?

Ok guys so here's the situation. My father re-married an amazing woman around a year ago. She has 3 kids. a 13 year old boy and two girls. One is 19 and the other is 22. I am 21, and me and the 22 year old get along super...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is happening here with my cousin?

I'm 20 and my cousin is in his late 20's. We've always been close and quite close touchy touchy even when we were younger. Obviously nothing sexual or inappropriate, just touching. Whether it's standing by me with his arm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it sexual tension? Does he feel it too?

So this guy and I at work have been flirting every time we work together. I feel attracted to him and I feel like we have built some sexual tension. He has brushed my arm before when he was talking to me and randomly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you guys ever liked or loved someone but never really pushed through because you feel like it's never gonna work out anyway?

Ok so here's the thing, my ex-boss and I were really attracted to each other- to the point that we'd feel the sexual tension just by looking at each other's eyes. We never acted on it though. We have a 7-year age gap....

Anonymous

(30-35)