Search Results: choosing between his ex and me

Can I get him to forget his ex?

So the guy I am dating now is still talking to his ex. They dated for almost a year and they broke up a month ago. Our relationship is good, even though he doesn't try as hard as he used to. I know he likes me a lot......

Anonymous

(30-35)

We are exes but friends, but is that what he really wants?

Hey there guys so here's an update. After my ex and I decided to move into our own places, he mentioned yesterday that he has two potential places. But can't move in because his lounge suite won't fit. So I started...

WEEZIE

Xper 4 Age: 41

Torn between two men. (Warning! LONG!)

I have a real dilemma and unfortunately I don't know what to do about it. I need to make a decision soon but I risk hurting one of these great guys in order to choose one over the other. 1. Six months younger than me....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

My boyfriend of three months still calls his ex to pick up their dog?

I'm not being childish but do not want to have a relationship with a man that is so attached to his dog that his ex will be in our life and he must contact her to see the dog. Should I go with my feelings and just move...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How can I get her to choose between me and her boyfriend?

Its about my life..please read below and advice me... We(me and the girl whom I love..lets calld D) became best friend just two weeks before..it's been a year we became close to each other.. Just before a year. We'd been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

How do you gain someone's trust back?

I was with Chris for six months. The first four months were amazing. We fell for each other fast and hard. But in our fifth month together a problem arose. My ex whom I was with for three plus years came back into my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How should I get rid of my ex best friends stuff? Should I try and fix our friendship?

He was my best friend for about 8 years. We recently had a fight and it was my fault, so I texted him and apologized; but I didn't think that was good enough so went to his house and asked him to come outside and it was...

ryleemegan

Xper 3 Age: 32

Family & Friends

Do I stay or do I go?! PLEASE HELP!

i have posted a question before, in April, and I didn't really get any help. I'm hoping that I get the help that I am looking for this time around. my boyfriend, and love of my life has cheated on me. he cheated 2...

rubberduck_smith

Xper 5 Age: 40

Relationships

Strange situation - I have boyfriend and lover who has a girlfriend. I'm with my boyfriend for more than 2 years?

I really wanted our relationship to work, cause I had divorce and I have a child before I met him,i was alone for two years, without having relationship with men and I was choosing very carefully for person I'll be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is he talking to his ex?

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, prior to me he was in a serious relationship with someone for many years that royally screwed him over (cheated on him, etc.) his family now hates her for obvious reasons but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to make him want me like he use to?

i met this guy around may 2010 and we started hanging out a lot during the summer. it got to the point where we both really liked each other. the only thing that was stopping us from actually being together was his ex...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

People: Should I be okay with my fiance keeping pictures of ex girlfriends?

Of course I'm not, but we've been having this argument going on three years. these pictures consists of women he cheated on his first wife with (a stripper from Vegas) who he continued to have a sort of "f**k-Friend"...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I still in love & what to do about it?

K so my ex and I were on and off together for about a year , it was a very drama filled relationship and he put me through horrible situations and broke my heart time and time again , I'm a very loyal person so I didn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can you remain friends after a bad break up?

so my ex boyfriend broke up with me last week because his parents hated me.while we were dating he introduced me to some of his friends.now they have to choose between us they want us to be friends so we can all hang out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my ex still trying to control what I do?

OK, so my ex and I broke up like a month ago. We're both 18 and were together for a few months. He was always really controlling, if I wanted to do something, he would guilt or blackmail me into not doing it, or doing it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think?

My ex and I broke up 3 months ago. We suddenly started fighting the last week we were together and called it quits. I still hurt. He was with a girl for 6 years before me. We were together a year and he even proposed...

jules4

Xper 4 Age: 42

Is a guy ready to choose if a girl asks?or he will just forget her?

I asked him to finally decide -if he wants me strong enough or if he doesn't need me!I told that if I understand that he doesn't need me,he won't have any more chances because I am not ready to love so strongly somebody...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to I get him to choose me?

My best guy friend loves his bitchy ex girlfriend and me equally. He is now having to choose between us like Bella choosing between Jacob and Edward (sorry anti-twilight fans). I really love him and refuse to lose to...

Anonymous

(30-35)