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You can call it anyway you see it - and I will thank you for your help. I have known a man a long time now - mostly online but met in person in the past, it's not ''a relationship'' and the distance IS our real problem.

Anyway, we're still off and on and I distanced myself because I was getting too into him and didn't wanna be hurt, well 3-4 months later he acts all cool, emailing me, like what's up?

So we've had a little back and forth, but while he did initiate contact this round, he seems slow in his responses where in the past he was not like that.

So do I mirror his actions and not reply to his message from last night and make him wait a full 24 hours or longer?

I don't know what to make of this, like he's seeing someone else but obviously I am on his mind because he contacted me. I do care very much about him and miss the outrageous fun we used to have just talking.

Oh well, thanks for your time, xoxo :)

Last summer I became friends with a co-worker at our summer job. Our friendship started when he would invite me to work events with his other friend, or along with them to lunch. We started going to lunch nearly every day, and went out after work sometimes for dinner and drinks - with our mutual friend. He always wound up sitting near me, offering me a taste of his drink, and asking about "cute" things that has happened to me romantically in the past. We had semi-flirtatious conversations involving biting, "enjoying the pain", he said "so do I" when I said someone told me they liked my ass, etc. Over the school year we lost touch - he told me that he got very busy and that he'd try and be at the next summer event, and has been emailing me at work often. We even had a conversation that led to me asking if he wanted me to show him how his anatomy worked, to which he said "sure" and then we discussed how he has something in common with the show Dexter: the sex life. However, when I sent him a message later saying if he wanted to casually show me, I'd be down to see the Dexter lifestyle in a non-murderous way, he didn't respond at all. I sort of thought he was sometimes dropping hints of a sexual interest, but now I don't know.

I'm not sure if he's uninterested or what - although he has almost always been the worst at responding to texts within a few days - or if I should have been clearer.