Search Results: engaged but distant

Guy friend recently acting strange, but why?

So I met a good guy friend through school, we flirted a bit but have always just been friends. He found out I was engaged and started dating another girl shortly after. We would still hang out and study and nothing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

"Take Care" and a distant hug on first date?

I went on a first date tonight with a guy I met online. We met at a bar, and in total the date lasted for 1.5 hours (until 11pm) I really enjoyed his company and he seemed to truly enjoy mine as he was laughing and the...

Bella6363

Xper 4 Age: 40

Does it always mean that he's not that into you if he doesn't keep in touch much after a great first date?

I'm pretty bad at judging this but it seems like most people would say that if a guy is distant after a date (no matter how great the date was) and if he's not all over you, he's not interested. Are there exceptions...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why can't I love the same?

I used to pride myself on being a loving person, but the last guy I was with did me in, changed my whole perception on guys and people in general. While I worked to put myself back together, I started feeling good about...

Selliebeanz

Xper 7 Age: 31

Is my ex becoming interested again?

My ex and I broke up, about 5 years ago, we've been friends now for almost a year and a half. He first contacted me asking to be friends and if we could mend fences. We were together for 2 years, engaged, but he had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Does he care or not? What do I do now? help please?

Happily engaged currently but last summer my SO had a good friend who ended up falling for me big time, and I mistakenly continued to let him talk to me and allow his feelings to grow. And I told him if it was too much...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to recover from a bad first date?

I met a girl online about three weeks ago. We took an immediate like to each other and we flirted pretty heavily with each other. We're both kind of awkward people and more homebodies than the kind to go out and about....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my fiancé cheating on me?

I made a huge mistake and cheated on my fiancé I admit that I was basically a whore and a terrible person for it. But he's taken me back and we're engaged again. The problem is now he won't let me into any of his...

Proverb31

Xper 2 Age: 30

I made a huge mistake and cheated on my fiancé I admit that I was basically a whore and a terrible person for it. But he's taken me back and we're engaged again. The problem is now he

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Has he lost interest? How do I address decline in communication and mixed signals?

I got out of a 10 year relationship last year, so I'm sorry if I have the dating skills of a 23 year old. I've been seeing a guy (38) for 3 months. I'm 33. We did dates & sleepovers 3x/week for over a month. He never...

Anonymous

(36-45)

After four years, why can't I let go? Need some insight, please?

I met this guy in October 2010. We started dating, and fell in love, however, after about five months, he started pulling away. He would act really distant, like he didn't want me around, stopped being considerate, etc....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

What's the deal is she just using guys to not think about us?

Ok ladies I have a question for you. Im just recently out of a two year relationship we were engaged to be married in March of this year she had left once back in 2014 claiming it was because of where we lived up until...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, is it obvious that he is disinterested?

My crush engages and can talk with anyone besides me. I have to initiate practically everything and he never seems interested in the conversation and kinda flustered. I feel like I'm being annoying ugh. He can talk to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How does he really feel?

I've recently started chatting to this guy I know at college over text. And we've spoken in person once or twice. He is really nice and fun to be/talk with. I know I like him, but I feel like Im getting mixed signals from...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

So she and I are engaged and here lately she has become somewhat distant. I usually stay with her at nights and get up in the mornings run to my apt?

and shower and get ready for work. I've asked her several times at night if its okay that I stay. I just don't want to impose even if we are engaged. She's always up for me to stay. But lately our sex life has minimized...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Flirting

Is she leading me on or trying to make me pursue her by being distant?

Ok, So I've posted about this before but I'm still treading water with this girl. Normally I'd let it go but this is fantastic connection. Believe me, I got an offer from another girl (which is probably still open should...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I confront my guy friend about his feelings?

My friend "bob" and I work together in a kitchen. We're both chefs; he's the first chef to give me the time a day and so on. We get along really well we have this awesome friendship where we can talk to each other about...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Do you think she'll start initiating conversations and possibly engaging with me more?

This girl and I had an argument a few weeks ago about how we were having too much contact lately and her acting distracted with me (even when she invited me out) and we haven't hung out since. Mainly due to her family...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Friends with Benefits really messed up situation... Anybody has any views on how to move on?

Hey... Okay so i knew a colleague, who was in a relationship with a girl since 8 years.. They occasionaly had issues which he told me about, but eventually got engaged. But few months before thier marriage, they had a...

Anonymous

(36-45)