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This is a kinda follow up to one of my first postings. My co worker, Anthony and I started to have a budding relationship but was put to a halt before anything remotely serious began. Going by what Anthony has said "he didn't want to ruin our work relationship." Since then, I've dated a few people since last year, and every time Anthony always asks 20 questions about each gentleman I've gone on dates with and acts a little jealous. However, when he finds out I'm not seeing someone, he acts relieved. On the other hand, anytime I inquire about his love life he seems so secretive or vague (although I know for a fact he has no girlfriends, just hook ups from time to time). To get to the point, most people would look at me and Anthony and say " Girl , you are out of his league, you are smart, sophisticated, polished, mature and got a good head on your shoulders. However Anthony is a bit sloppy in dress (not polished) , not as mature and not good enough for you." Despite this, I remember in the past a time when Anthony and I connected on an emotional level. I felt at one point we could be candid with each other, he was a gentlemen, and although he's not the smartest person, I honestly know he tries hard and I think at times, I just make him a bit nervous, hence his fidgety behavior and sometimes silly remarks around me. I can honestly say that he respects me and I get the feeling he knows in his gut, I'd be that girl that would cause him to want to be a better man. (Not change him, but be the best man he can become. ) So I have to ask, Guys, If you knew she liked you back, would anything stop you? What would you do to improve your chances with her?GUYS DO YOU STILL PURSUE A GIRL IF YOU OR YOUR FRIENDS THINKS SHE'S OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE?