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So I started talking to this guy. Were both in relationships— don’t judge I've never cheated in 12 years of relationships til now bc I’m being neglected etc it’s complicated. He is also in an uphappy relationship, bottom line we’re both looking for a way out. Anyway, I’m 27 he’s 36. day 2 he’s saying he’d marry me and have me pregs twice by now if I was his, needless to say I was shook he wants a kid and she doesn’t (I want a kid too right now) so we were really bonding. A few days later I slept with him. He called me right after to see if I got home ok but didn’t say anything about hanging out again.. A few days after that was my birthday and he called me to say happy birthday. He’s really cute was always kissing me on the forehead, getting me coffee, paying for everything. He asked me what my 5 year plan is, told me he’s so happy I’m in his life (this is all after we slept together.) now a little more background, he’s newly sober he was a bad alcoholic, just got out of rehab etc. I know he’s going through a lot right now so I’m trying to give him space but he hasn’t made much effort again? He practically begged for my number and gave me his and told me to add him on Facebook. I stupidly called him 4 days after we slept together he said he’s just trying to get back into a routine i got off after 2 min and he said he would call me next week (didn’t call). Since I last called him it’s been 7 days now. Is he never going to call again? Was he just using me or am I being paranoid? And look I’m just tryin to be real not a snob or anything but I’m a good looking girl I get hit on a lot, so I know I’m not ugly, and his girlfriend is like not at all she’s like a 2 on a scale of 1-10 lol Help!

Last weekend I met this guy at a party. I thought he was really cool and I started to like him more and more as the party progressed and he seemed to like me too. We talked about anime, sang karaoke together and just had a lot of fun. I never met him before and I was afraid I'd never see him again if I did nothing, so I asked him if I could add him on Facebook when I left (I wasn't brave enough to ask for his number, lame I know..). He said sure, but that he wasn't on Facebook a lot. It did seem to bother him a bit that I left a bit early.

I noticed he was online on Facebook and I really wanted to say hi, but now my insecurity issues strike again and I'm not sure if that would be weird. It's not like I know him very well and he hasn't made any effort to contact me. I'm afraid that maybe he just liked me at the party, but nothing more.

Should I say hi?

Note: I know he's single and that he's not gay xD