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Search Results: too early for commitment
I'm a bit of a commitment-phobe. Too much, too soon?
I'm a bit of a commitment-phobe - I think anyway. I've never been in a relationship before, and whist yes I've had what you could refer to as flings, I've never actually been fully involved with a guy in terms of...
Anonymous
(30-35) To pursue or not to pursue?
This Friday, I met a guy at a party at my college in western Massachusetts. He was performing in an a capella group for a cultural show earlier in the night, and he's from NYU. He asked me to dance and asked me if I...
Anonymous
(30-35) I hooked up with a guy at a party. Help?
One of my best friends is friends with this guy, who a couple of weeks ago said he was interested in me. I hadn't really thought about him that way before, but then I realized that I was interested too. This weekend at a...
Anonymous
(30-35) The Dilemma with Dating (Guys- does she like you?)
There are a lot of questions here about how to get girls, why girls don't like good guys, if a girl likes a boy and how to ask a girl out, should you ask a girl out, when to ask a girl out. Well men, your prayers have...
zombiefood
Xper 5 Age: 35 Don't know where I stand with her in this relationship, advice?
She had bad luck with guys in the past, and I think she's afraid of commitment. She doesn't want to lose me but I shouldn't wait for her, to save me from further misery. I told her upfront when we started dating that I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Two men and one path....I'm not sure what to do?
1st guy I've dated on & off since earlier this year. He made it clear not ready for a committed relationship (yet—never could tell me what kind of timeline he was on). So in August I met and started dating another guy,...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Have I ruined it with the guy I like at work?
There was this manager at my work who openly caught my eye and would smile whenever he came into my office and would chat with me whenever he saw me. He was my colleagues' manager and not mine. the week before I was...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do guys check up on girls they're interested in?
I'm in love with a guy who won't commit and after 11 years of loving, fighting, seeing other people but always going back to him, etc. I've decided for what seems like the millionth time to try and quit him completely....
Anonymous
(36-45) I want a kid, now! But how do I get rid of this thought? Help me!
Okay the title pretty much explains it. My boyfriend and I have only been together for 8 months, I love him and I do want to spent the rest of my life with him, but it is just too early for this kind of commitment. I am...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why are those with commitment issues generally perceived as most attractive/pursued most often?
Even among other issues as well? example guy has an alcohol/smoking/drug problem: girls jump all over him. guy who is a player and/or promiscuous: girls are begging to be with him. even guys that simply just have a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Rings and Rewards
The couple shopped for wedding rings. He was sixteen, she a few days past fifteen but they'd been a couple since they met two years before. There wasn't a lot of money to shop with, in fact the young man had to buy both...
Taken-lady
Xper 5 Age: 56 Made his mind up too quickly?
I met this boy on holiday, we were both out visiting people (my friend and his brother are together)... we kissed one night, and eventually had sex on the second to last night of our holiday... I liked him, so I told me...
Summer-Sun
Xper 4 Age: 38 Can I ever shake this doubt in my relationship? How?
I'm in a very complex emotional situation when it comes to my relationship. I'm 24, and my boyfriend is 30. The first month was amazing for me; he seemed to feel a connection too, I thought. We had a lot of fun the first...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I back off?
So I met a guy out about a month ago. He was in my city for the night, but actually lives about 2 hours from me. We really hit it off/exchanged #'s, text everyday & found we had a lot in common. I went out to visit him...
burger22
Xper 5 Age: 44 How to establish trust with someone. -How to show them you are opening up to them. (emotionally, sexually)
-NOT intending to use them, taking advantage of them, play mind games, manipulate etc.) "You want to feel appreciated by her (or in psych lingo: for her to reassure you and validate you on how hot, sexy, attractive,...
Anonymous
(36-45) I want us to work out despite it being long distance. What should I do?
its been awhile since I've felt this way. this girl and I have been talking for awhile now. my best friend hooked us up. we both go to different schools. we joke around with each other a lot. and its fun! recently...
zacho6124
Xper 5 Age: 35 Scared of saying those three horrifying words?
I am not the romantic type, candle lit dinners almost make me gag and finishing each others sentences makes me wanna hit someone. However this does not mean that I'm some sort of robot and I DO have emotions. So basically...
Anonymous
(30-35) Long-distance exclusivity?
I met a guy from online and we hit it off really well, except he lives 6 hours away. I've seen him on two occasions since he's had business in my town. We spent the last few days together and we text/talk all day...
sweetmisery14
Xper 5 Age: 36 Guys and commitment.
So I've been seeing this guy for 3 weeks now. We see each other about 1-2 times a week. I don't get to see him at all on the weekends since he works Fri, Sat and Sun 3:30pm to about 1-3am. We've went on one date in the 3...
Anonymous
(36-45) My ex needs to figure things out on his own, but cried when I stepped out of the picture. What?
My ex broke up with me after 8 months because he said he was unhappy with his life, and needed to figure things out on his own (he is 31 and I am 29). He said he still wanted to spend time together while he figured...
secretwish
Xper 5 Age: 46 