Search Results: afraid to make commitments

When do you know its appropriate to call someone your gf/bf? When giving someone that title, what are you afraid of?

So I was thinking back and trying to count how many gf's I've had. And if I go by the traditional view of what a gf is, I haven't had any. I've never been wth anyone longer than 2 months. Which would be considered a...

partyboy45

Xper 6 Age: 38

Guy's Behavior

Why are some guys so afraid of commitment or getting. into a relationship with a girl?

Most guys I meet want. flings or one night stands. Which makes. me. think am. i undatable. or is that what they want at this stage of their life. Whether. online. or. in person guys seem to say everything I want to hear...

kindgirl21

Xper 5 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

What does " let's go with the flow" mean?

What should I tell my friend she is really confused. When talking with a friends with benefits about possibly changing the status of their relationship his response is well lets just go with the flow. They already sleep...

pinkyandthebrain

Xper 4 Age: 36

Do you think the guy I'm seeing is playing games?

I have been seeing this guy for two months now, almost three. I feel like everything has been going good. I already met his parents and his roommates and most of his friends. When we are with everyone, or even out doing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he care about me? or am I wasting my time?

This guy I have been seeing for 2 months texts me almost everyday, makes great dates and spends a lot of time with me. But he doesn't want a relationship. Am I wasting my time, or is he just afraid of commitment?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Friend's with benefits is a joke?

The funny thing is that in the Movie, they ended up becoming a couple, as if the movie answered its own question: Friends with benefits doesn't work! I feel like its a joke for people who either want to use each other...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The funny thing is that in the Movie, they ended up becoming a couple, as if the movie answered its own question: Friends with benefits doesn't work! I feel like its a joke for people

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Afraid of commitment-what is wrong with me?

So, a guy I have been seeing off and on since last fall, are *kinda* getting serious. No, haven't committed to each other nor have we met each others Parents. However, recently I explained to him my living situation and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Trust/Commitment Issues.. Afraid to let it show?

The first guy I was with I thought I loved at the time so much and he told me he didn't feel the same and basically disregarded my feelings. I was heartbroken and it took me a very long time to stop thinking about him , I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

MISS HIM SO BAD - Afraid to let him know?

First off let me say that yes I'm that girl - ISSUES. The first guy I was with I thought I loved at the time so much and he told me he didn't feel the same and basically disregarded my feelings. I was heartbroken and it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys get scared of feelings?

I've been seeing this guy for 9 months. I'm confused what he wants from me. We talk almost every day multiple times a day. He shows up where he knows I will be but just stops & says a hello or will wave from afar. I've...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

I asked my ex for some space and he is giving it to me. What do I do now?

My ex broke up with me over a month ago (after 9 1/2 months) for two reasons. One reason no longer applies anymore and the second reason is that he isn't mentally ready for a long term commitment like he thought he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he just afraid of commitment? Having a hard time reading this?

I met a guy a few weeks ago, we get along great. We do not live in the same city but not very far. From the beginning we both stated we were not looking for a relationship at this time. We do sleep together, but our...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Was he falling for me, but afraid of commitment?

I began to get feelings for a guy who came back around to me. We started as friends with benefits and from the beginning, he told me crudely that "he would never get attached" After awhile, he would text me out of the...

morganlaene336

Xper 5 Age: 36

My ex and I have decided to make contact after a while. Should I contact him first?

He broke up with me after two months, after he did a complete turn around in his feelings for me--this after a genuine expression of our romantic feelings for one another. Soon after that he said he didn't feel 'that...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Any guys who have commitment issues? Or girls who have experienced it?

The guy I like is afraid of commitment because of an abusive ex he broke up with 8 months ago (we have that in common). Things are fine with us in person he acts like he likes me, we have "moments." But he makes plans...

curlyqlink

Xper 5 Age: 32

Major commitment issues.. justified? How do I get over them?

About a year ago I was with a guy, he was practically my first everything including first sexual experience. We started as friends and then things grew deeper than I could imagine. At the time I thought I loved him but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

i feel like I'm in a unofficial relationship with no commitment?

ok so I've known this girl for about 6 months now and we have always been attracted to each other. when i first met her she just got out of a long relationship. she said she was in no rush to get back into a relationship...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Having trouble getting over it...?

A little over a month ago I was his "everything", "soul mate", & "whole heart"... he even told his mom I'm the "one." He started acting funny. Broke up with me.. said he wasn't ready for the commitment or us. He asked me...

LLG09

Xper 5 Age: 35