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You know the story, boy meets girl, boy asks girl out, boy and girl become a couple bla bla bla. Then I kept hanging out and talking with my ex **** friend. We were an on and off thing but he became really open with his emotions and all that once I started dating my boyfriend. One night we were smoking and just hanging out and well.. you know... we had sex. Oops. Now this doesn't mean I want it to be over with my boyfriend or that I don't have feelings for him or any of that, I do really care about him. His ex cheated on him before me and he's said he won't deal with that again but... should I man up and tell him?

My bf and i went to his nieces birthday party yesterday. This girl who I dislike because when we first started dating and at his brothers wedding I heard she was trying to get with my bf when I wasn't there. She told him her bf just broke up with her and my bf told her I don't care. I saw marks on his upper bicep that looked familiar to a hickeys. He said it was from working on his derby car. His sister in law told me they didn't do anything. I have trust issues so it's hard to believe what's true. We now have been dating for 9 months. That all happend when we only were dating for almost a month. Then last night she was at the birthday party and my bf seemed to keep looking at her. He told me he wasn't which I knew he was. Then when she was there we were outside smoking and it he would go in when he was done and wouldn't wait for me. Also when we went to go sit down he had his chair kinda turned so he could see over thay way where she was sitting. There was other people over there too and she was sitting with her bf. Then when they left he turned his chair back facing straight. Then when we went for a smoke again he waited outside for me. I don't know if I'm over reacting or if he is attracted to her? Please help because it's bugging me inside that he likes her.