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Do guys really joke about this stuff? Is there always some truth behind it? I would never keep asking a guy about specific sexual things he might be into unless I wanted to act them out with him. Am I crazy for thinking that he's full of bs and just too chicken to own the fact that he wants me? He does this EVERY day... we message all day long and eventually he starts bringing up sexual things. I told him to stop "joking" about things he claims not to really want to know about! I can't take it anymore. He hides behind sarcasm, saying he's jk and "poking fun". Who pokes fun at someone about their sex fantasies? This all sounds like immature bs to me. Like he can't decide what he wants to do.

I really want to just plant one on him the next time we're alone bc he's always completely in my personal space, glued to my side, stroking my arms, shoulders, lower back, etc. I feel like I need to push him to act but I'm so afraid he'll freak and act like it's a joke. He never moves away from my body or my touch. He always melts into me, our hands linger when we hand each other things and every time we talk he holds eye contact for days. It feels like he's burning my soul. I don't think I'm crazy. I feel the heat and attraction. Whenever we are in the same place he will sit beside me, as close as possible and hog all of my attention. We are already extremely emotionally intimate but I don't know if he for sure wants sex.

We talk about everything, including our families, experiences we have been through, our insecurities, our sexual fantasies and sexual preferences. He always wants to know what I'm doing.

When I lost my phone and therefore lost contact with him for a few days, his best friend told me that he cried for like half an hour...

When I said I had a slight crush on him, he just said, "nah, you don't really, because nice guys always finish last."

What do you guys think? Wouldn't he have admitted if he liked me when I said that to him?

I have a crush on this guy since high school (it's been 5 years) but the problem is that we never talked to each other much. I still have a crush on him but does it worth me talking to him now so that we can at least progress as friends and see where that will take us?
Another problem between us is that even though we both go to the same church he seems to be more diligent into joining church works than I do. I feel I'm out of the league for I didn't stepped back to church for so long. Also, it seems like he has less sexual fantasies than I do for him. I feel dirty and guilty in a way!
I tried to forget him but I felt he's looking out at me in a way. I remembered two years ago (that was our last conversation) he called out my name to say hi to me. I sort of picked up the courage to ask how are you and how you've been doing lately. We made eye contact while talking and he seems to be willing to listen to me but he pulled away every few seconds we made eye contact. Then when we finished we both looked away and I was the one who finished the conversation (because I have to meet up with my friend).