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I asked a question few days ago and i got lots of answers but at least half the girls were super mad that i even dared to say that i have standards, so here are mine :

1- attractive to me (doesnt have to be gorgeous just i find her attractive)
2- not fat, dont care if she's fit or has perfect body, even a little belly is cool just not fat
3- can cook and clean - iam not asking she cooks and cleans 24/7 but if my wife can't cook me a hot meal and clean the house 2-3 times a week then she loses a lot of feminity and quality points.
4- she doesn't have to be super smart but not naive is a must, iam sorry but naive girls fall for the weirdest lies and thats not a good quality.
5- nice, caring and simply someone i feel comfortable with.
6- Not slutty and didn't slee paround or hook up with random guys.
7- wants a family and likes to be a mother.

Iam not asking you to argue with me, just tell me if you think my standards are realistic or too high for you.

P. S: these are the base standards for the majority of men i know old and young alike, and if you look at it from a realistic stand point, nothing on my list is actually high in fact in short iam describing a decent. wife material girl.

I was with my ex for 4 years, it was a high school relationship. I was heart broken after but we would just fight and i needed to venture. Anyway i moved to America - New York and met a gorgeous girl who just captivated me. I loved everything about her. I meet her a year after breaking up with my ex. We both dated from the get go, 4 months. I didn't want to make it official because i didn't want my ex to go psycho on this girl and also my work situation wasn't steady and i was likely moving in 1 months. Anyway, she stuck around. Another month went by but then she brought up what we were. I then told her that i got the job in Arizona and i think its best we break things off because long distance sucks and i didn't want heartbreak and to put a time frame on us. We we split. She felt lead on but wished me well. I believe someone then told my ex and all of a sudden she was heading to Arizona in 2 months to work there with friends. I move for work going nc with the newyork girl then my ex contacts me to go for drinks with her and her mates. I went more to give my ex closure. Im guessing the New York girl found out through photos my ex put on Facebook, next day im not her friend on Facebook anymore. I was instantly upset. Because she didn't tell me why. My number was also blocked. I then told my ex off and told her we need to stop and decided to take her and her family off my facebook. Its been 8 months now and i get word im heading back to new york for work. I contacted the girl by letting her best friend know on fb that im coming back. I then get an email a week later from the ny girl saying that she 'will always care about me' and she 'doesnt play games' and she 'doesnt want to make me jealous because its highschool crap'. However at the end of the email she put 'best wishes'. Which to me implies for me yo leave her alone. I want her back. I dont want to scare her awayIm at a crossroads. Which option should i take?

Sorry its so long, i guess im just in need of advice...