Search Results: losing a friend friendship

Girls, how would this message make you feel if it came from a friend you didn’t have feelings for?

I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship and partly what’s exhausting me too) - I really admire your free independent spirit and your fun personality...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship and partly what’s exhausting me too) - I really admire your free

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Guy's Behavior

My best friend says he’s fallen for me but he has a girlfriend?

So me and this guy have only known each other for a year as we’re on the same course at university. We’re really close and he practically hangs out in my room every night. He’s been in a serious relationship for about 2...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Girls, Message 1 or message 2?

Message 1 - I like you as more than a friend. Do you feel the same? Message 2 - “I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship) - I really admire...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Message 1 - I like you as more than a friend. Do you feel the same? Message 2 - “I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining

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Family & Friends

Girls, would you continue to be friends with him if your guy friend who you’ve been distancing yourself from as he started acting weird sent this?

You used to really enjoy being with him but then he started being passive aggressive avoiding you etc and also worrying you’re avoiding him, being clingy etc when you got busy and couldn’t see him as much. “I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

You used to really enjoy being with him but then he started being passive aggressive avoiding you etc and also worrying you’re avoiding him, being clingy etc when you got busy and

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Dating

Girls, Which is the better message of confession?

Message 1 - I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship too) - I really admire your free independent spirit and your fun personality and you always put...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Message 1 - I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship too) - I really admire your free independent spirit and

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Family & Friends

Girls, is this a good confession from a guy to a female friend?

I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship too) - I really admire your free independent spirit and your fun personality and you always put a smile on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship too) - I really admire your free independent spirit and your fun

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Family & Friends

My best friend befriended my crush, is distancing myself right?

Anonymous

(25-29)

i pointed him out on the basketball court and was like “oh he’s sooo cute” and ever since then when we would see him around campus i would gush about him to her. She said “he looks

i pointed him out on the basketball court and was like “oh he’s sooo cute” and ever since then when we would see him around campus i would gush about him to her. She said “he looks crazy.” And i said “ yea he does but he’s still cute.” Then i spoke to him for the 1st time later. m, Saying, “i like your tattoos” he said “thank you, is that it?”. I was like “ yea.” cause it didn’t seemed like he wasn’t interested and was actually a bit rude. It hurt but i was able to get over it. So then maybe 2 weeks later my best friend says “ Drey (the ball player) is actually really nice he’s not crazy at all.” It caught me off guard and I’m like “y’all know each other?” She then says that she only befriended him to use him for car rides. Which sounded like a dumbs lie, then she started telling me how he was texting her Paragraphs of how beautiful she is and how she should let him treat her like a queen. Ironically My best friend is “dating” his basketball teammate, and she would always complain about what he said to her but still would not cut ties with him even after he continued it. Once he came to our dinner table, Sat across from me next to her and was like “ Can i get you something to drink.” Im not even gonna lie, the rejection AND attention he gave her over me was hurtful and made me jealous i can admit. Now she’s like they’re best friends and it’s obvious he's just trying to wait till another guy messes up. I don’t have the right to tell someone who they can and can’t be “friends” with, but it Honestly hurts my feelings that my friend would be so comfortable letting this happen when she knew i had a crush on him and talked about him. I don’t know what to do cause i know it’s not worth losing our friendship over but at the same time i don’t like this. i kinda distanced myself from her. I feel like she just disregarded my feelings as long as everything was good for her. I don’t want to control her so i just decided to make other friends, is this the right way?

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Family & Friends

Galpal losing respect for me for being open about my issues. Thinking about cutting off friendship?

I got a galpal I’ve known for years but in the last few months started hanging consistently out with. I’m not that attracted to her. I could never see us together. However there have been a few drunken moments where...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How do I either get over her, or become a romantic interest in her mind?

I am in love with a friend, and even though I knew she doesn't feel the same way about me, I told her about my feelings (It was getting out of hand; I was throwing up and losing sleep over her). She told me she's sorry...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

The point of having platonic female friends?

Hey everyone, I was recently reading a Reddit post of how girls get upset when a guy no longer wishes to be friends with a girl after rejection and how they would immediately pursue other women because women feel as if...

Emptyheart

Xper 6 Age: 28

Family & Friends

What do I say to her?

So I totally screwed up my friendships with this amazing girl. At first I was trying to become more than when we ended up not feelimg the same way, we decided to be only friends. But like most guys, I became jealous at a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How do you get over losing a friendship?

I had a good female friend and we just grow apart and lost contact completely - even to the extent of ignoring each other’s messages. We were friends for about 4 years. Any advice?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Im interested in one of my friends, but I don't want to risk losing our friendship by asking her out and her saying no?

I am interested in one of my friends and I don't know if she is interested in me back. We send hearts back and forth but my other advances go without response. I want to be in a relationship with her, but I don't want to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Is it worth risking a long term friendship with a very close female friend to tell her you’ve developed feelings for her?

losing her friendship would be tragic.

Anonymous

(30-35)

losing her friendship would be tragic.

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Girl's Behavior

I'm a straight girl but I think I'm starting to have real feelings for my best friend (girl). What do I do? I'm not attracted to girls only her?

My best friend and I are very close we always tell each other how much we love each other, always put one another first before anyone else, always talk we even stay on the phone all night until we fall asleep and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Girls, Best friend of 5yrs Losing her virginity to your older brother? Yes or no and why is your reason for that answer?

Quick thing, my brother doesn’t like her at all & used her for sex... she’s totally in love with him and lined herself up to get hurt despite me telling her to move on. We all live together & I feel like it’s caused...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Quick thing, my brother doesn’t like her at all & used her for sex... she’s totally in love with him and lined herself up to get hurt despite me telling her to move on. We all live

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Family & Friends

Which message is best to send to best friend who you told 6 months ago you only see as a friend but was a lie?

Message D - Hey, I want to tell you something. Being an introvert, I love my own space but I’ve realised that the reason I’ve always been persistent with you is because i feel insecure about our friendship and that’s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Message D - Hey, I want to tell you something. Being an introvert, I love my own space but I’ve realised that the reason I’ve always been persistent with you is because i feel insecure

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Family & Friends

Girls, How would you feel if you received the below message from a guy friend you text weekly, see weekly & going on holiday with in December?

Hey, I want to tell you something. Being an introvert, I love my own space but I’ve realised that the reason I’ve always been persistent with you (although I’ve been giving you space recently) is because i feel insecure...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hey, I want to tell you something. Being an introvert, I love my own space but I’ve realised that the reason I’ve always been persistent with you (although I’ve been giving you space

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Family & Friends

Is this a good message to send to an introvert friend you’ve fallen for?

Hey, I want to tell you something. Being an introvert, I love my own space but I’ve realised that the reason I’ve always been persistent with you is because i feel insecure about our friendship and that’s because I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hey, I want to tell you something. Being an introvert, I love my own space but I’ve realised that the reason I’ve always been persistent with you is because i feel insecure about our

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Girl's Behavior

Does this girl like me?

I gave her advice while she was going through a crisis and she told me after, “You‘ve proven to me over and over that you‘re nothing but an amazing, open, caring, trustworthy and loyal friend. And I‘m so glad that you‘re...

Anonymous

(25-29)