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Alright so my ex and I were together for 3 years and have known each other for 4. We went through everything together! My parents got a divorce and since I'm cronically ill I was living with them. So I moved 1 hour and 20 mins away. We say each other around 1x a month since he has a job and is starting collage. Unfortunately he doesn't have his license only his permit and doesn't have a car. So, his brother or parents would have to help me get back home we would split the driving in half. This was straining on our relationship. He broke it off... It never ended ugly. He calls me and says he still wants to be my best friend but the relationship was too much. During one of our phone convos he was dropping hints saying "I wish someone was laying next to me" or telling me personal stuff. I saw him in person (went to my old home town) (he initially said he didn't want to see me but called me and said he was right down the road). We met and hugged each other and was saying how he was glad that I'm okay and than went on to saying that he wants to bang from just seeing me. I was talking about my skirt and he touched my leg. We hugged goodbye and he kissed the top of my head. I wanted to have sex with him one more time but he keeps saying "I won't do that to you" or "we can't I can't do that to you". I don't understand his mixed signals! Please help!

So, I've been going at it pretty hard with my friends with benefits who at first, started out as my guy friend using me as his apparent therapist to get over his Ex. Omg, srsly just so much about her, I wanted to die. Then he found out I had never been with a... black guy.
Im a very tiny girl, rumors were true in his case, we can't stop screwing.
But, now he's like planning stuff weeks ahead & leaving hickeys & paying for stuff (which I had to let him do or he got all like pouty seeming like I offended him), & like I'm on a break from a person I live with I mean he tries to walk me to my door.
He wanted me to send a pic of myself together with him to a dude I really really really got hurt by but still like.
It's like, I think it just FEELS like I'm his girl, I'm already sleeping over tonight & spending the day with him.
I didn't suggest any of this.
Nada.
I'm like, "K."
Then, we get blazed, talk, & bang.
But, we're going out out tomorrow & to a sex store the weekend after that, & of course restaurants.
When does this surpass fwbs?
Srs..
I want that D though!

Basically, I met a guy online lol. We both started talking at the same time our relationships had just ended. We spoke everyday almost all day for like 4 months on Facebook. We had so much in common, I have never met anyone I've had that with. I literally wouldn't care if he were ugly lol, I just love his personality. I told him from the very start that I didn't want to lead him on, that I wasn't ready for anything more than friendship because I hadn't got over my ex. He was fine with that and we started a really lovely friendship. Inevitably, I start growing feelings for this genuinely lovely, great guy. I told him straight up that I liked him as more than a friend (around 2 months in) and he was really shocked. Although he was attracted to me intially he always saw us as friends because of what I said so it was hard for him to see us as more. When I told him he did tell me he got butterflies though lol, he even told his boss to hit him for being so blind! (Even though it was sort of obvious to everyone else since we used like at least a hundred kisses lmao). On the same night we had the same dream too! So creepy, it was of us at a party dancing specifically by a buffet lol. Anyway, so since then he was sending me so many mixed signals; he would seem so interested in me. He'd be really flirty sometimes and even suggested a movie night and cooking for me around his! But then he'd be unsure about his feelings. He said he "thinks" he likes me as more but he's scared of getting hurt and hurting me and losing the friendship.
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