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I've always been a genuine good person. My kindness and strong intuition and belief of good in people have always been aspects of myself I'm grateful for. That said, when it comes to dating and men.. I've always gone after men who may not be financially stable or "clean cut" but have genuine souls or I see something in them that I guess others don't? My family and friends think I lower my standards. My cousin told me because I'm gorgeous & classy, and well-educated, and he thinks I should have men begging to be with me.. Which I mean, I do get guys after me often... But they aren't what I'm looking for because many of them are either players or don't view life as I view life. I have a very artistic vision to life. I'm currently interested in a man who is a musician and lives on the road... He has a very punk/hippy, unclean maybe disheveled look to him overall, and maybe he's average looking.. Small framed and scraggly beard and hair... He doesn't have a job otherwise, or a car, and he's 26. But I honestly don't see him as my friends and cousin see him? They were in shock I wanted to be with him bc they think I'm "out of his league" but I don't believe in "leagues" at all. I think a person is a person and I'm after the heart and what's inside.. And I just really think this guy is a good guy, and he's into making music.. And I think he THINKS about life as I do. My cousin told me I must be desperate if I'm after him, and that i need to get more confidence in myself and find men who are "clean cut" and shop at fancy stores and have an actual job and education. Am I being delusional because I'm looking past that?

There is the guy I matched with on tinder. He seems like the quieter type. I added him on Facebook.. And he has no girl action, he seems like a quiet musician guy who likes reading and chillin out. He seems really nice too. Would it be okay if I just straight up asked him if he'd like to get together sometime? Those words exactly? Or should I say I'd like to see you sometime without asking him? I'm pretty attractive, but I'm super introverted and shy myself... But I guess I don't mind asking him. My friend told me I should never ask a guy because they would ask if they wanted to. It's just he seems not like the type to chase women or be like confident in asking women out. Of course this is my take on it. Our convo on tinder died out and he seemed to really want to get to know me but didn't take initiative, and then he deleted his tinder so I had to find him on fb. He accepted my request today. Should I send him a message tonight? If so what?