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By love in public, I didn't mean physical PDA like makeout or stuff. Like they always want a audience to go like "awwwwww" in background for effects.

Here's two examples for better understanding!
1. Proposal in a freaking stadium before a game.
2. Him writing a "I love you" on mirror w lipstick, not caring her friends might tease her later about it.

So basically all the mushy stuff and some portion of drama. What does that make you feel?

Lets say on the street or at universities... do you think PDA (public display of affection) is appropriate?
Is it acceptable if a couple kisses (peck) when they say hello or goodbye?

Hey I should probably start off by describing myself a bit. I‘m a 19 years old girl from Europe. I‘m about 5'4" tall, have dark eyes, long darkbrown hair and pale skin. I would say I look pretty average but I always try to put effort in the way I look to look presentable for my family and boyfriend. My family raised me pretty strictly because in our family good manners and education are very important.

Now to the problem:
When it comes to emotions people describe me as cold. I would love to say that this is not true but often enough i find myself avoiding to get emotionally involved with anyone because I was disappointed so many times before. This also includes my boyfriend. I absolutely love him but I can‘t feel it. I often try to show him how much I love him but I feel like I always fail because of my general behaviour around him.

When we go for a walk for example I absolutely hate holding hands or when he puts his arm around me. I prefer linking arm or keeping them to ourselves. I also don‘t like kissing in public or any sort of PDA like cuddling when we wait for something. When I see couples that do things like that it seems repellent to me.

My boyfriend sometimes hints that he doesn‘t understand my behaviour but I don‘t know how to talk to him about it because I am scared to hurt him.