Search Results: turning a guy on with words

How to deal with a guy who's still stringing you along despite having a girlfriend?

Basically we both really liked each other. I'd never felt so comfortable with someone before and he said the same. I was still hung up on a ex (who shattered my self esteem pretty bad) so when he suggested we be together...

happychic

Xper 6 Age: 35

Dating

Why are people so incredibly rude? (in life and on here!)

I mean..I'm having a rough day, so...that could be why I am asking this question. But it seems like nearly everyone has no manners, no integrity, no shame. I open doors for people (men, women, children, elderly,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Drinking, flirting and coming on strong during first date?

I'll try not to ramble! Met guy online. Articulate guy with good job. He called twice (each were hour long convos). He asked me out for dinner Sat night (I know, Sat nites are serious.) He took cab from his part of town...

jen227

Xper 5 Age: 47

Dating

Is he a player or am I overanalysing?

I was in the university library, studying one day and this guy sat opposite me, facing me. We were both studying and I was watching a comedy video which made me laugh. We did make eye contact and smile at each other. As...

Fiqah

Xper 6 Age: 32

Dating

People who can get dates but still complain?

Just curious have you ever meet someone who has no problem getting a date but still complained about their date? I hope that made sense? In other words the person knows their good looking enough to attract the opposite...

GoGoDancer

Xper 3 Age: 48

Dating

Why does he act like I don't even exist? What should I do?

We had been dating for almost 5 months. We don't technically live in the same town, but I am lucky enough to have a residence in his town, and while we were together I was there almost 50% of my time. He helped me through...

chaoskitti

Xper 5 Age: 49

Dating

What should I say through text to go out with him?

Ok, me and this guy use to text alot. He would always try to take me out to either bars,clubs,baseball games,basketball games,concerts, etc. I turned every offer down, cause my friends said they knew of him, and they told...

BrunetteBabe1005

Explorer Age: 32

Flirting

do i need to talk first?

this girl is my colleague and she is kind innocent, nerd and good in behavior . i proposed her, she didn't tell anything, neither i didn't ask whether she loves me.. she slowly started avoiding me, when i talk... she...

lovepains

Xper 5 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

Ultimately confusing Ex boyfriend ... Guys, please help

We were in a long distance relationship.That was wonderful. Then he walked away saying something like he doesn't know where it's going and he's not sure he will get what he wants from this relationship(and something about...

Lamia

Xper 5 Age: 37

Dating

She's suddenly quiet, need advice ladies!

We had a truly amazing first date, followed by about a week of awesome conversation and things progressing fast. My confusion started with this...a day that started as usual (what had been normal for us for about 3 weeks)...

TigerFan77

Xper 5 Age: 48

Family & Friends

I hate my girlfriend best friend??

I know hate is strong word but I can't stand my girlfriend best friend, she is really manipulative, clingy and attention seeker. My girlfriend is a really caring sweet person and she is really gorgeous turning heads...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Distance-greeting-problem: He never says hi and I don't know why.

I met this guy through a lab. We saw each other only one time there but I started to like him and I had the feeling from how he acted that he liked me back. That was 3 months ago now. A couple of weeks ago I met him by...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How do you gently turn a nice guy down?

Ok guys, if you had to experience a woman telling you she wasn't interested in dating you, in what way would be the easiest way to take it? What words could she say that would not leave you feeling really hurt? Or is...

LJHam

Explorer Age: 55

Flirting

Confusing Signals From Coworker

OK...I've been out of the dating game for years and I'm having the hardest time interpreting this guy's actions, that is, if there's anything to be interpreted at all. The guy in question and I are both in our late 20's....

nessa05

Xper 3 Age: 40

Flirting

Why can't he keep time??

I have a guy I've been seeing since 2010 and we moved in together about 6 months after that. Well now is when I'm realizing he never actually keeps his word unless I keep pushing him and he'll come through once in a blue...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Do one word responses show lack of interest?

My friend keeps talking about herself and turning the topic to herself and all her guys. All I can say is "cool" or "awesome" do you think this is mean? Does it show her I don't want to hear it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Flirting with the "boss"....?

So I should start by saying that it's a volunteer position, so he's not exactly my boss. Anyways, my last supervisor got a promotion so they replaced her with this new guy. Of course, he's cute/funny/smart/etc but, as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Actions speak louder than words?

I was texting a guy (we've known each other for a few years) recently pretty non stop. Out of the blue he started backing away and not texting too much. Perhaps we got too close too fast. I originally would run into him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I often feel like a total loser. What's so wrong with me?

I'm turning 18 in a couple of months and I often feel like a total loser. During past 6 or 7 months I've been through something one might call "first love", which was a ridiculous story of me falling for a really nice guy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What does he want from me?

It's a very long story but I'll make it as short as possible: I was in the process of converting to a different religion and got to know a guy of that religion who I really liked. We started to get close but whenever he...

Anonymous

(36-45)