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My ex kept asking me "are you going?" & "oh so you're going then?" In a curious/concerned/confused way when I ran into him a couple days ago about a birthday party for a mutual friend. He said he would be there, but his girlfriend would also be there helping clean up. I told him originally I wasn't going, but that day I realized i didn't have to work, so I decided to go, and that's what he said to me.

Also to note: me and his current girlfriend (of a couple years) are professional around each other. I also have a serious boyfriend who is going.

Is my ex curious or concerned because he doesn't want me to go? Or he wants me to go? Or he's having odd feelings for me or something?

It can't be that it'll be a problem for me and his GF because while we are not friends, we get along. Also my ex is 33 and I'm 24, so it's of course not going to be like a college fight lol.

I've known him for a month, and we were together four times, for hours. Our feelings developed stronger than we both anticipated in such a short amount of time.

I talked to my parents about him, of how much I was happy, and everything. But when I told them he is (31) and I am (25), the fact he lives at home (he's helping his family), and has no car and no license (cause of speeding). They don't feel comfortable with me dating him.

I understand their concerns and worries, but he makes me feel special, he cares about me, he enjoys spending time with me. I mean we literally talk every single day, whether it be text or over the phone.

Anyway, I tried so many ways to get my mom okay with my dating him, I even suggested that he would meet them so he can set their minds at ease and see that they misjudged him.

I really had no choice which isn't fiat to me or to him, cause I'm not even going to get the chance to see what could have happened. So I had told my mom that, I am taking a break from dating/relationships and I am going to focus on getting a good job, and try to re-discover myself. Of course it upsets me, cause it means I won't see the guy I love but I am not about to life and go behind my parents back to see him. And If I say I am seeing him anyway, there's going to be all this hostility living with my parents. I can't bear the thought, it's hard enough as it is.

So I have to end it, and hope that maybe there's a chance we will be together again. Problem is I don't know how. He was my first boyfriend for a week, I don't know if that counts. And he says, "if you give up on us my heart will be crushed."

HELP!!!

Also I'd move out but I don't have enough income yet, I need a better job.