Search Results: losing a friendship

Friend zoned? When we were never friends?

I started pursuing a girl as soon as I met her, she said she wasn’t ready for a relationship, but wanted me to continue pursuing her. This went on for months, she just told me yesterday she doesn’t feel the same way I do....

Wildeagle1

Xper 4 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

Just why would he do that to me and would he ever come back?

I was with my ex for close to 4 years. Found out recently through a mutual friend (who has been by my side through everything) told me my ex (who I left) has been cheating on me. Recently found out he's been speaking to a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls not like their guy friends to be attracted to them?

I've been told that the best romances begin as friendships, and it makes sense to me, but women friends seem to be uncomfortable with guy friends showing any interest in them at all unless they feel the same way. It can...

jmstarling

Xper 6 Age: 50

Relationships

Has your pride ever resulted in you losing a friendship /relationship? How? Please explain. What would you have done differently?

I once wrote off a girlfriend for lying. It was a stupid lie really unnecessary , a decade later, I realized we both slowed our pride to get in the way. It wasn't worth losing the friendship but it's too late to salvage....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Which hurts more? Losing a friendship? Or a breakup?

My friend has recently treated me like shit and he made me feel upset in the same way I feel upset in breakups. And it made me realize how much i care about him. We sorta made up so its cool now but im curious to see...

Littlemajere

Xper 4 Age: 25

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Family & Friends

Which message is better?

Message 1 - “I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship) - I really admire your free independent spirit and your fun personality and you always put a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Message 1 - “I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship) - I really admire your free independent spirit and your

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Girl's Behavior

Did this girl ever like me romantically?

Just to be clear, me and this girl are done. She blocked me for asking her out but I feel it had more to do with me overwhelming her to a point where her feelings left, since we had a lot of stressful arguments throughout...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Does this message just sound desperate and like he’s a cry baby? If so how can it be improved?

I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship and partly what’s exhausting me too) - I really admire your free independent spirit and your fun personality...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship and partly what’s exhausting me too) - I really admire your free

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Dating

Girls, If u liked him but he annoyed u as he didn’t tell u he liked u for a year, just faffed around & not acting like a man, he sent u this, reject?

You’re getting fed up of his phobias, him telling you about his stressful day etc. And ultimately not telling you he likes you. The he message is this “I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

You’re getting fed up of his phobias, him telling you about his stressful day etc. And ultimately not telling you he likes you. The he message is this “I was afraid of telling you

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Family & Friends

Girls, how would this message make you feel if it came from a friend you didn’t have feelings for?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship and partly what’s exhausting me too) - I really admire your free

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Guy's Behavior

My best friend says he’s fallen for me but he has a girlfriend?

So me and this guy have only known each other for a year as we’re on the same course at university. We’re really close and he practically hangs out in my room every night. He’s been in a serious relationship for about 2...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Girls, Message 1 or message 2?

Message 1 - I like you as more than a friend. Do you feel the same? Message 2 - “I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship) - I really admire...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Message 1 - I like you as more than a friend. Do you feel the same? Message 2 - “I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining

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Family & Friends

Girls, would you continue to be friends with him if your guy friend who you’ve been distancing yourself from as he started acting weird sent this?

You used to really enjoy being with him but then he started being passive aggressive avoiding you etc and also worrying you’re avoiding him, being clingy etc when you got busy and couldn’t see him as much. “I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

You used to really enjoy being with him but then he started being passive aggressive avoiding you etc and also worrying you’re avoiding him, being clingy etc when you got busy and

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Dating

Girls, Which is the better message of confession?

Message 1 - I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship too) - I really admire your free independent spirit and your fun personality and you always put...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Message 1 - I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship too) - I really admire your free independent spirit and

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Family & Friends

Girls, is this a good confession from a guy to a female friend?

I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship too) - I really admire your free independent spirit and your fun personality and you always put a smile on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I was afraid of telling you but I think it’s just wrong for me to hide it (I think it’s straining our friendship too) - I really admire your free independent spirit and your fun

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Guy's Behavior

PRE Relationship Problems?

There's a guy who say he's interested in me. But he is taking things way too fast. I did mention this to him but he says let it be the way it is. It's just being a month and he wants us to be like couple from years in...

Div0501

Xper 4 Age: 27

Family & Friends

My best friend befriended my crush, is distancing myself right?

Anonymous

(25-29)

i pointed him out on the basketball court and was like “oh he’s sooo cute” and ever since then when we would see him around campus i would gush about him to her. She said “he looks

i pointed him out on the basketball court and was like “oh he’s sooo cute” and ever since then when we would see him around campus i would gush about him to her. She said “he looks crazy.” And i said “ yea he does but he’s still cute.” Then i spoke to him for the 1st time later. m, Saying, “i like your tattoos” he said “thank you, is that it?”. I was like “ yea.” cause it didn’t seemed like he wasn’t interested and was actually a bit rude. It hurt but i was able to get over it. So then maybe 2 weeks later my best friend says “ Drey (the ball player) is actually really nice he’s not crazy at all.” It caught me off guard and I’m like “y’all know each other?” She then says that she only befriended him to use him for car rides. Which sounded like a dumbs lie, then she started telling me how he was texting her Paragraphs of how beautiful she is and how she should let him treat her like a queen. Ironically My best friend is “dating” his basketball teammate, and she would always complain about what he said to her but still would not cut ties with him even after he continued it. Once he came to our dinner table, Sat across from me next to her and was like “ Can i get you something to drink.” Im not even gonna lie, the rejection AND attention he gave her over me was hurtful and made me jealous i can admit. Now she’s like they’re best friends and it’s obvious he's just trying to wait till another guy messes up. I don’t have the right to tell someone who they can and can’t be “friends” with, but it Honestly hurts my feelings that my friend would be so comfortable letting this happen when she knew i had a crush on him and talked about him. I don’t know what to do cause i know it’s not worth losing our friendship over but at the same time i don’t like this. i kinda distanced myself from her. I feel like she just disregarded my feelings as long as everything was good for her. I don’t want to control her so i just decided to make other friends, is this the right way?

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Family & Friends

Galpal losing respect for me for being open about my issues. Thinking about cutting off friendship?

I got a galpal I’ve known for years but in the last few months started hanging consistently out with. I’m not that attracted to her. I could never see us together. However there have been a few drunken moments where...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Is this true? Does it apply to friendships with women too?

“Moreover, being difficult to be around is a way for a woman to undermine relationships and bring closer its end in order to justify herself and end a relationship she doesn’t feel good about.”...

Anonymous

(30-35)

“Moreover, being difficult to be around is a way for a woman to undermine relationships and bring closer its end in order to justify herself and end a relationship she doesn’t feel

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Relationships

How do I either get over her, or become a romantic interest in her mind?

I am in love with a friend, and even though I knew she doesn't feel the same way about me, I told her about my feelings (It was getting out of hand; I was throwing up and losing sleep over her). She told me she's sorry...

Anonymous

(18-24)