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White women knocked up and left to raise black children, white couples raising adopted black children and white grandparents helping raise black kids giving them a stable home, appropriate levels of discipline, education, values and a positive culture. Are white people actually the saving hope for black America? I think so. Even President Obama was raised by a white mother and white grandparents when his father abandoned him.

Black people raised by white families do quite well. There is a whole host of them including Drake and many more.

I wonder if this will later create a divide between ghetto blacks and those raised in white culture.

I would say only if children of a relative or close friend. You don't know what kind of hereditary mental issues you might get. They will likely be ungrateful in any case, and even more so if of a different race, in which case you will someday be hit with accusations of insensitivity and cultural genocide.

Choose which of these families you would rather be born in

Family A
Married parents, they fight often, call each other names, neglect you, are very poor and greedy (they count every penny), blame you for their own failures, are nosy, find reasons to annoy you or scream into your ears, tell you are worthless, a failure and a burden. You suffer from poverty and unresolved medical conditions. You are abused and taken advantage of.

Family B
Unmarried parents (and they won't marry), financially stable, you are taken care of, can get some toy/dolls every now and then, have just enough spare money for hobbies, eating out and transport. They support you, tell you you can make it far eventually and that you can trust them with everything. Vacation every 2. nd year local or out of country. Society considers your parents as unusual "deviants".

Family C
Never met your parents (and never will), grew up in fosters home with child support money being issued to you to get you through childhood. Got a private room, a bit of cash, relative freedom but with some responsibilities in the fosters community (like clean up, cooking, helping setting things up from time to time ETC...)

Family D
You don't remember your parents anymore but you got adopted into a family and you are being raised by 2 very caring and married same-sex spouses (2 wives OR 2 husbands - your call). Successful, resourceful, raise you neutrally, so you can make up your own mind (they do not force their views on you and they fully support you being heterosexual), give you freedom but with guidance. Vacation twice per year local or out of country. They can make you successful faster than the other families, no strings attached.