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I met him this past August (2014) we're both in college. We were just friends at first he started just sleeping over 3 weeks after we met and we first kissed About a month 1/2 after we met.. We didn't have sex until about 3- 3 1/2 months after me met.. But all the while he was stayed over every night.. His past relationships have really hurt him his ex cheated with his best friend and his last relationship last semester h has told me he still has feelings for her.. He told me he never got any closure because she just left school and didn't come back.. He has told me that he is heartless and has no feelings because he has been hurt so many times.. he has told me on several occasions to just leave him alone and that I deserve a better guy.. And that he is preparing me for my next boyfriend.. but he gets in what I call man periods when he just shuts down and tells me to leave him alone and a few times he will say I'm done this is the last time you will speak to me.. Like most people In friends with benefits I caught feelings for him and I have told him that on several occasions that I do care for him.. The people that do know about him think we're almost in a relationship and not stuck at friends with benefits. I have thought about ending it but I like him and I highly doubt it will phase him because I no he could go out and get another girl the next day.. and i no he isn't sleeping with someone else because I'm with him most of the time except when he is in classes and he spends every night with me. We talk everyday while we're on break mainly in text message and snapchat but we talk everyday on and off.

My best friend and I were friends for 16 years. Our dads are best friends too and go back to when they were teens. She started changing mostly because of a guy. She became a stalker with him too after he broke up with her. She became a s*** talker, about everyone not just me, very competitive, overall nasty person. Always bitter and showing off. It saddened me cause she used to be so much better. She moved out with a friend even though her dad is severely ill at home. That friend is now her new best friend, and didn't even tell me she moved hours away. And guess why she moved there? Not for work, she has been unemployed for months. Not for school, she doesn't want to go to college. Because her ex bf lives 13 min. away now. She talked so much smack about that guy's new girl saying she's a home wrecker but that didn't stop her from sleeping with him again while he was with her. It disappointed me greatly because I'm not the revenge type of person and you never know if the other girl knew about my friend in the first place, but my friend Definitely knew about that girl! So she's been a horrible person not only best friend. I've distanced myself completely and I know she's noticed. My question is: Should I let her figure it out and focus on me and staying positive or should I tell her everything I feel and leave it to her to change? The reason I have that first option is because I was going through a lot, anxiety and depression included, and I finally found a calm and positive place. I don't want to fall back into a dark and nasty path by having a war with her. Sorry for the essay, but these details matter to me...

We've been dating for over almost 3 years. A couple of days ago he told me that he had cheated on me last summer with a friend of his. He was sleeping with her for 2 weeks and his excuse was that he thought he was losing me and went to find affection elsewhere. We had a pretty good relationship, but I suffer from depression and sometimes I shut down and am not able to express my feelings to him and he always take it hard and feels like he's less of a man because he can't make me happy. He claims to feel like he was losing me and then he realized how much he loved me and broke things off with her. I am furious, but at the same time I am very much in love with him. I know I have my own issues that I'm working on, but I never thought he would cheat on me. He was always worried about me cheating because I go to school with my ex and we ended on good terms over 8 years ago and remained we're friends. Which is why this is so infuriating. I trusted him wholeheartedly and now I feel like if we were to stay together, then I would become one of those paranoid girlfriends who checks her boyfriends phone whenever he goes to the bathroom. He's had female friends and I was never worried about them, now I don't feel comfortable with having any female friends. Also the girl he cheated on me with was the best friend of his best friend and I don't even feel comfortable with him being friends with the guy anymore. I'm so confused I love him and at the same time want to pound his face in. Any advice would be very appreciated..