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I'm in the first semester of college here in the U. S. Because I grew up in S. Asia, I have spent time in the past at a monastery previously, as is customary for many at some point, if they choose. I spent 2 years. Here, I became acquainted with a guy (1 of the 1st I met here), who's turned out to be what girls call a player. Actually, he runs around with a few others that also are. He found out that I spent time in a monastery, and asked don't people there have great mental discipline... to which I replied it is practiced. He said good, and begged me to help him. I agreed. He said a lot of college girls now are too thick, as he said, and wear black leggings while keeping a straight face when guys like him approach. He's tried to win against them, but he can't, and he's mad. He asked me if he could have 1 of his guys get a girl like this to approach me, and watch as I showcased my superior mental discipline to see how it's done. I said sure, as I'll help with anything. So the guy who set it up and I met. He got a girl (he said she's 19), to approach me in the common. About 5'4, maybe 160 pounds (he meant thick), had on black leggings. She asked me a few questions. I used every technique I'd been taught... but after 3 seconds my eyes went down, landed on her big butt, then upper legs too, a my jaw dropped open hard😮😮😮😮. It was because of the black leggings and too thick. I can't ignore that.😖. I was humiliated, so I looked up, but when I did, I looked right into the face of a really cute brunette-who kept her face totally straight, looking at me. I finally went, "ohhh, aww😖😖😖" and gave up. The guy who watched was shocked. I'm humiliated. I didn't think this could happen. Should I tell the guy the honest truth of what happened, that I can't beat these girls, that honestly... there's no way you can? He's the leader of those few friends, and he asked for my help because he can't win against it. I can't either. Nobody can. What should I say to him or do?

i saw this article online , it states a police force is seeking a male suspect who made unwanted " sexual gestures " around 2 am at a nightclub. it doesn't state he's wanted for sexual assault , infact it doesn't state any specific offense that he is being charged with. other than that he made unwanted gestures to a woman that were sexual in nature , she asked him to stop and he did but she saw him do the same to another girl so the police were contacted.

in the past these sort of things were typically resolved within the bar itself , they typically ask the person to leave the premises and are told there unwelcome to return. ( but the police would rarely be called with the exception of extreme circumstances where a sexual assault had occurred or someone was approached by someone they had previous court orders to stay away from etc ) , for this dude the bar would be within there right to ask him to leave and tell him he's unwelcome to return. but i'm not sure why the police was called yet alone why there still looking for him nearly a month later.

Police looking for suspect who made 'unwanted' sexual gestures
City police say incidents occurred in the early morning hours of Sunday, Nov. 17 at a downtown nightclub
Barrie police are searching for a man who allegedly made unwanted sexual gestures toward victims on Nov. 17 at a downtown nightclub.
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On Sunday, Nov. 17, 2019 at approximately 2 a. m., the victim was at a downtown Barrie nightclub, when an unknown male approached the victim from behind and made unwanted gestures that were sexual in nature.

After repeatedly telling the suspect to stop, he finally complied and walked away.
However, he was soon observed carrying out the same advances towards another victim.

https://www.barrietoday.com/police-beat/police-looking-for-suspect-who-made-unwanted-advances-1973747