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I met this guy a few years ago on an exchange trip to Germany (he is English, and lives in England) and I thought I liked him then. I've never had a relationship, and had previosuly considered myself to be a pretty bad prospect for most guys, as I'm not terribly attractive and REALLY geeky. Anyway, this guy was really nice, quite nerdy and clever, and so I felt like we were similar. Then, there was a reunion last year with a few other people, and I told him a bit of how I felt, but he was indecisive, partially because he is also a relationship virgin, and also we live about 3hrs away. He did admit to quite liking me, but I wasn't sure how far his feelings went. Another year went by, and we had been texting, and he tried to organise another reunion for everyone from the Germany trip. Long story short, it ended up being just me and him at his house for 4 days. I had a great time, but I still dont really know if he likes me. When I was there, we watched movies sitting close together, and at one point he put his arm around me, but we didn't really discuss it. I didn't want to broach the subject, as he already knows how I feel and I didn't want to rush things and scare him off, but I feel like I need to know if he likes me. I now find I can't sleep due to thinking about him and worrying that he doesn't like me. What should I do to either persuade him to tell me about his feelings for me, or to make it clear that I still want a relationship? Please help, comment and vote!!! If you think I should tell him, please comment suggestions for how I should do this!

I met this guy online. We've been talking on the phone for a couple weeks. He has a very strong accent. He's really nice, but… I think it's either his personality or culture? He's just very… tells me what to do?

We talked today on the phone and he asked me what he should wear when we meet up and then told me to wear something similar because it's hot outside. Idk, weird. I told him I was cleaning my apartment and at the end of the conversation he was like well finish cleaning your apartment! I think he was kidding, kind of, but so far his humor is odd. We went for a walk in the park and he asked if I play frisbee. I said no… so now he brought a frisbee because he wants to teach me…. what if I didn't want to learn? Idk, I was nervous enough, why do we have to add in an activity that I suck at?

Idk, he called before we were meeting… which I thought we had already decided and he was like well we need to not be so indecisive and make a decision at what we're doing and what time. I thought we'd already said what and when we were going… he even asked me what he should wear. Then told me what to wear.

Earlier, he also map quested how far it was for me to get to where we were meeting. I said I could do it and he just went ahead and did it on his computer and then told me over the phone. I didn't want to give out my personal address and he kept asking well what are you close to?

He totally insisted that we play frisbee and I didn't want to. I just wanted to walk and talk and get to know him a bit… not show my lack there of skills at frisbee. So awkward. The whole thing was just awkward. I like him? But I may also only like him b/c he's the first person I've found to remotely be anything like what I want. So what do I do?