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My fiance (living in another country) recently ghosted me out of the blue. I saw a pic that another girl posted on his timeline of them kissing, sent him a screenshot, and simply said "this breaks my heart :'( ". Next thing I knew, I was blocked on everything and I never heard from him again. I made another facebook account just to see what he's up to, and he apparently started a relationship with the "other woman" on the exact same day that he ghosted me out of the blue. So I'm just wondering if this has happened to anyone else.

FYI: it sucks being ghosted by the person you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with :(

So I've been with my boyfriend for over 1 year now
I'm his longest relationship and he's my longest relationship
I'm his 3rd girlfriend

So his first girlfriend was 4 years ago
He gave up his virginity to her
She was his first kiss
They dated for 6 months
Then she dumped him for another guy
This was all 4 years ago
And then 3 years later, he dated another girl (before me)
They lasted 4 months

But anyway...
Yesterday we were hanging out and this was our conversation:
Me - I hate my ex, I want to go to his work and punch his face for what he did to me
boyfriend - he's a dickhead, just forget about it babe
Me - yeah true, do you know where your ex works?
boyfriend - yeah my first ex girlfriend, she works at the supermarket at ______ (location)
Me - oh wow you know where precisely
boyfriend - yeah I do, my friend knows her too and he tells me she still works there
Me - oh okay, do you want to go there together and piss her off?
boyfriend - Oh wow, I was actually going to ask you but I didn't because you would think things like I still like her and shit so I didn't ask you
Me - we can go if you want
boyfriend - yeah lets go there one day, and you have to hold my hand when we walk around okay? And stay close to me

Does this mean he's still not over her (his first ex)?

This guy and I are a fantastic match as far as compatibility is concerned. We share the same sense of humour, have similar interests and on the same page in terms of morals and values. He is actually boyfriend material. Very caring and attentive also.

Date 1 was bowling. We had a great time. We were affectionate and the date ended with a kiss. Date 2 he took me on a jetboat ride and lunch afterwards, great time again.

In between these dates I wasn't really feeling that magic excitement to hurry up and see him again. I wasn't even feeling the need to text or talk everyday with him. It left me confused as to why. I did have a little bit of an attraction to him but it was just so so.

On the second date when he dropped me home, I invited him in. We got very sexy on the couch, straddling him, bit of grinding and massive make out session. I hadn't done anything like this with anyone since I broke up with my ex 4 mths ago so naturally I was getting a little excited at the thought another man was totally into me and desired me that way.

Because he wasn't actually setting me alight with his kisses I decided to sleep with him more so because I wanted to see if having sex would ignite something and whether afterwards I would feel some sort of bond or attachment. I didn't feel attachment. The sex itself was not bad.

Isn't it meant to be happy and exciting, your supposed to want to shag the shit out of that person every time you are together. Your supposed to want to chat with them daily and initiate the affection and flirting. Your supposed to want to hurry up and see them again. It was like that with my 2nd husband, I was giddy with excitement and it was like that with my ex, by the third date with my ex I was totally lost in him and wanted to be with him all the time. I compared all that to this lovely guy and it wasn't there... The actual spark with this guy has been a little lacklustre and my attitude has been just "meh". Why?