Search Results: reactions to cheating

Just like someone asked if cheating can ever be an accident, if a partner (man or woman) hits the other during an intense argument gone wrong (after they've been together for years and it's the first time it ever happened) can that ever be an accident?
Personally, I think not. You had the intention to hurt them at that moment (you still made the steps to raise your hand flat to slap or curl your hand into a fist) and took your anger/frustration on them. Hitting back, then being shocked and claiming it was an accident, nope you had the same anger reaction as the original hitter and really meant to hurt them at that moment.

Within these past months, I would get hit on by two of my bf's friends. Both were already trying to set up a date and one even send me a picture of him in his swimsuit.

I would immediately tell my boyfriend and show all the message they wrote. I noticed my bf's little reaction (I think most guys would be already upset and he didn't seem; I would be fuming if one of my friends was trying to flirt with my man) and he would often say ''Oh, I'll have a word with them'' or ''Or I guess Ryan is a joker, don't worry I'll speak with him''.

He accidentally left his yahoo inbox open. On there, he was instructing them what to say next to see if I would fall for it or not, to see if I was like the others girls in the past that cheated on him. He kept stating how he wanted to make sure if I was ''wifey material'' or not.

A couple months ago, I slept with a guy who is in my friendship circle but don't really consider him as a friend.
Went to a friends house for a party, got pretty drunk and he offered to walk me home. He ended up walking into the house with me and getting into bed. Me being drunk, I didn't know what I was doing and we ended up having sex.

Afterwards he told me not to tell his girlfriend.
I feel guilty, I feel disgusted with myself and I think if I had a boyfriend I would want someone to tell me he's cheating/has cheated on me so I know I'm not living in a relationship full of lies.

I've not talked to him since but he still comments and likes stuff on fb page. I feel better telling her and having to deal with whatever reaction she gives me but I also don't want to be the reason for the heartbreak either.

Should I tell her?