Search Results: why guys don't make moves

Is it time to quit this job? (manager problem)?

I've been working at a huge high-establishment now for one month as a hostess. This job as a hostess does not only consist of the typical simple things a hostess do, but other things since a lot of people come here. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Feelings of my work crush towards me? Help it is very confusing?

There is this guy at work who I think I have a crush on. I dont understand why I have a crush on him. He is not that good looking but he is tall and has a nice body and he is a little bit weird, I always find weird guys...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Wtf is wrong with him and what does he want from me? dealing with a really weird dude?

I met this guy like 5 months ago and he started chatting right off the bat. im currently in school and he's out with an actual. his job seems to always have him going out of town. we aren't exclusive but we talk a lot...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

How can I start believing and praying again?

I am nearly 28 i lost all my faith when I was 19 cuz it was cool to be atheist among my college friends i thought if i tell that i am atheist they won't bother me with questions of why i am muslim. I was not a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What can I do to make it work out?

I met a girl we would go out together a lot but someday on whatsapp she told me "i really do love you" and it was appropriate cuz we went out that day and it was g8 and we were talking about that i had a crush on her when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guys seems to back off when I take initative?

i have seen a pattern with guys online (dating apps); the second i take more initiative they seem to back off. Do you think its pure coinicident or something else? I can talk to a guy for a week, and he will start...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Does she like me should I make a move?

1. She punches my arm. (Could be sign of friendship). 2. I left class really fast and suddenly she was behind me and her feet hit my feet. And I said I mumbled something I forgot what I said. And she laughed and then...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why is he avoiding me, does he still like me?

So there's this guy I like at my hs and he's been giving signs he likes me. A week ago he's been stalking me even the first two days of this week Monday and Tuesday and now he is avoiding me. He usually sees me when Im...

Duckface44

Xper 4 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Why am I even mad?

I used to have a huge crush on this boy so much that I thought I was in love with him. He didn't like me though lol. So I grew up, I moved on,, got pretty, and realized when I was about 15 that he genuinely didn't have to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why exes that dump you and treat you like shit get to move on with their life without remorse?

yeah, I'm that salty guy, my ex dumped me after mistreating me. it's been 4 months (maybe 5) since she dumped me and wanted to stay friends but i never replied to her texts again because she offended me a lot. Why...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, What just happened?

So I was talking to this guy who admitted to liking me the same way I liked him. He said lets go slow and take our time. I think your a great girl. So I respected that after all he said we are just friends but then he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is he just nice or interested?

Well, this is gonna be a little long but I really need an answer. I know this guy for 2 years bcoz he was at my school, but we never said more than"hello" to each other. I moved on from him a kinda long time ago, but I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

His guy friends are hinting or is it just my imagination?

hi all , there is a guy I like and so far I felt he liked me too , until he has now recently being cold , avoiding EVERY eye contact with me altogether.3 of his guy friends (that are my friends too but way less) are...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Ready Story: Why did she ask me to wait for her and ask her to stay?

So I've been seeing this girl for about a month now and she's had trouble with trusting people and sharing her emotion in the past due to bad relationships. Now we have been going out now for about 3 times a week. Lately,...

alphaq94

Xper 4 Age: 31

Dating

Is it bad that a girl chases a guy?

I know most guys on here will say its not a bad thing; why? Cause they are shy and dont want to be the ones to make a move. However I have made a move on guys previously and I have been taken for granted, used etc....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Does she like me? What when she moves in? What do I do?

So this girl stays at my friends' place which is vacant for now. I offered her my neighboring room in my flat which will be vacant in a month or so just a few weeks after college starts. We hit it off really well & I took...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Boyfriend is upset over something stupid I said. Also Is he being manipulative and i'm not noticing?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months. One of the arguments or issues that keeps coming up is that I'm not open with how I feel, that i dont communicate enough. This just came up again the other day. I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Should I completely move on and break what ever we have already? What should I do?

I've known this guy for almost 4 years were on a long distance relationship on and off... i love him soo much thats why i waited for him for a very long time he told me he loves me aswell and dont want us to grow apart...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Does she like me? Should I let her move in?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

All I want to do is have sex with him, what does he think?

This guy and I were seeing each other for a few months in the spring/summer. I slept over at his house every weekend and he would take me out and he was really amazing to me. We never had sex, which til this day, I still...

girlasks24

Xper 4 Age: 26