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Is this possible?

I've asked my self being bisexual many times as well. I feel I've been too controlled, gaslighted and humiliated by women, either bullying as a kid, rejection and friendzone (I'm not forcing them to be my girlfriend but I hate being guilt tripped for me not wanting to be their friend after such a wasted effort). I suspect the abusive figure of my mother is behind this as well. All to the point I can't see women in a positive light when it's about personal relationships. I can be polite, work in a professional environment, but I'll definitely feel uncomfortable anytime things turn personal.

I'm a person who values trust, love and communication over sex. I don't feel comfortable kissing or having sex, indeed. I don't feel entitled to anything, I don't want to control nor be controlled. I've found that for my whole life, the closest degrees of this kind of trust I've ever experienced have been with men, indeed. Forced to call it friendship or not. It's not ideal easy to get the right emotional distance, to reach consensus on what we want, but I've come to feel it's way more feasible for what the people I've known are in my country.

Some people would rather suggest me to approach it via therapy, but I've been there, didn't work.

Disclaimer: I'm not idealizing it. When I think of myself as gay, I don't see myself eventually finding a man I'd love and be loved. It might not even happen, but at least I don't feel that intrinsic aversion I have to women, but hope and predisposition.

She left me three years ago and apparently had a slut phase and fucked a bunch of other guys while. We’re back together and she's bisexual. She had a threesome with her best friend a month prior to us talking again and she’s still talks to this best friend all the time and her best friend has called me a jackass to my face and has told my girlfriend she doesn’t like me. She’s also introduced my girlfriend to her friends who wanted to hookup with her. I told my girl I hated her being around her and how it made me feel uneasy with them being so active in each other’s life. Then again, she said this was a one time thing and this is really her only friend. I said i’m not going to make the decision but it makes me feel uneasy and it hurts a lot. It’s a fight every time she hangs out with her. She dropped her friend today and she’s devastated. I almost want to breakup and tell her to go back to her friend.