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I like this guy at my job that I could have sworn liked me back.. But it's difficult because I also have a tendency to over analyze and come to the wrong conclusions. So that's why I'm asking here.

I noticed he would stare at me a lot, in the hallways. A few times we talked, he initiated conversation once when we were both in the kitchen, but otherwise it's just been by coincidence (in the elevator at the same time, or ran into each other in the hallway). But the fact that I always caught him looking at me made me think he was totally interested..

But here's the problem.. When I caught him, I would smile at him and he wouldn't smile back. Just look away quickly.
Another time I saw him outside of work and I looked over, he was looking, but he looked away quickly and didn't smile and wave, or anything. It was like he was pretending he didn't see me.

And now, I've stopped seeing him at work, it seems like he takes a different route so he won't see me.

I dont know. It's confusing me and I just want to know.

do you think he ever liked me?

So, I like (d) this guy at my job that I could have sworn liked me back.. But it's difficult because I also have a tendency to over analyze and come to the wrong conclusions. So that's why I'm asking here.

I noticed he would stare at me a lot, in the hallways. A few times we talked, he initiated conversation once when we were both in the kitchen, but otherwise it's just been by coincidence (in the elevator at the same time, or ran into each other in the hallway). But the fact that I always caught him looking at me made me think he was totally interested..

But here's the problem.. When I caught him, I would smile at him and he wouldn't smile back. Just look away quickly.
Another time I saw him outside of work and I looked over, he was looking, but he looked away quickly and didn't smile and wave, or anything. It was like he was pretending he didn't see me.

And now, I've stopped seeing him at work, it seems like he takes a different route so he won't see me.

I dont know. It's confusing me and I just want to know.

do you think he ever liked me?

So, I work with this guy. I see him every day, so I started saying hi to him when I saw him in the hallways. He's very quiet and, if I had to guess, I'd say he was an introvert due to the fact that I don't really see him talking to people a whole lot. But he always says hi back.

But there are a few times that he has flat out ignored me when we passed.. I was about to say hi and he looked down at his phone really fast, or, one time, I even saw him outside and he was looking over at me and then when I looked at him (took me a second to even realize it was him) he looked away very fast and didn't wave.. that seems weird to me, I feel like the natural thing would be to wave.

But then again, he looks at me a lot.. I sometimes look up and I'll catch him looking at me, and he'll glance away and then back. He never smiles or says hi unless I do it first.. He just gives me a blank look.

We've talked a bit, and his body language has suggested that he's interested - we were talking in the elevator and his legs were pointed towards me and he was standing pretty close, almost like he was "boxing me in" .. but then every time we've talked, he's rushed to get away from me as soon as the elevator ride was over or we exited the building together or something.

I genuinely don't know whether he dislikes me or likes me? or is he just neutral?

There's this guy who seems new to my apartment building, i met him as we waited for the elevator. He seems friendly and he asked where i was from, saying I was from the same place his ex was from and he preceded to tell me a bit about her. I guess he thought maybe i looked like her? I was surprised because i thought that kind of thing was personal or maybe something people didn't talk about much, (or so I was told, I haven't grasped American culture that much). Would you guys compare strangers to your ex?