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Search Results: having the butterflies
Should I believe this guys words, if he hasn't acted on it?
Hey! So about two weeks ago I met this great guy, amazing guy, I had butterflies when I saw him, it wasn't just attraction - he looked at me, I don't know it felt like, he was the one or something.. Like we were drawn to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do guys from all over like me all of a sudden?
In middle school, I was the weirdo. I had bangs, my nose was weird, I never wore any makeup (and I still don't), and I wore pink. ALL. THE TIME. And I would have this one crush that I just absolutely fell for, but I knew...
Hadloma
Xper 4 Age: 27 How do you get over someone you never had?
I've liked a guy for nearly two years. He's my first love and up until recently he acted like he liked me a lot. I figured he hadn't made a move because he's bad with girls and shy. But over the last few months he...
melissa2
Xper 6 Age: 29 Fell in love with a girl, 9 months knowing her, and today everything came crashing down, what do I do? Does heartbreak hurt this bad?
Knew this girl for 9 months, spent time together a lot, she knows my feelings towards her. And today, since school and stuff is coming to an end soon, everything was aired out. She doesn't have love emotions, and she...
Anonymous
(30-35) I have a lot to think of, but i'm up for the challenge.?
So me and my ex girlfriend are trying to make this whole thing work again. A lot of people don't think it'll work and many believe the approach I'm making is the best. We are working on a lot by bringing up what happened...
Fuyumiko
Xper 6 Age: 34 Should I leave my boyfriend if I know in my heart that I'm not in love with him and he's not some grand, impactful romance of my life?
So I'm about to open myself and really get vulnerable. Please don't judge me. I'm not some horrible person and I don't deserve to be attacked. I've been in a relationship for almost a year and I can honestly say that at...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever met a guy/girl for first time and felt a connection straightaway?
When you see someone and get tummy flips and you feel weak inside. You instantly have butterflies and in that moment you feel like this person was meant for you. An you notice your having the same effect on the person. I...
Shannon18
Xper 5 Age: 33 Is there something wrong with me for not having a boyfriend?
I realized since I was like 9 I had some early puberty and became attracted to guys, I mean literally every guy I see on the street. It was kinda creepy but I couldn't control my hormones. The problems of getting a...
Lonergirl0506
Xper 6 Age: 29 Does going to therapy change your dating habits?
One thing I worked on in therapy was my habit of constantly dating men who treated me like crap. It comes down to having an emotionally abusive dad for all my life. I just finished therapy and was on a dating break for...
Anonymous
(30-35) Rested my head of guy friends shoulder and I like him?
I was tired, so I just stood close to him and put my head on his shoulder and rested my hands gently on him, one on his upper chest, one on his upper back (natural feeling). We are close friends so he didn't push me away...
Anonymous
(30-35) College and a personality change?
Ever since I started college , I started having social anxiety issues. It's very weird for me because I NEVER had this issue before. In high school, I was pretty much a social butterfly and nothing was ever awkward for...
Anonymous
(30-35) Completely lost feelings for my ex, yet I had a dream about him last night. What's that mean?
So my ex and I are on good terms. We're friends again and we text each other daily. I've finally stopped having feelings for him and realized that last night. However, when I went to sleep I had a dream. He was holding me...
bettybets
Xper 7 Age: 33 Why can't I allow myself to love? Am I afraid of rejection? (long)
I haven't had a real crush in a long time. Just a tiny one that fades away, not a strong one with butterflies, blushing and can't stop smiling. If I do feel a crush coming on, I deny it and soon fades away. The thought...
OnceUponADream143
Xper 7 Age: 28 Devastated she gave me the wrong number. Did she?
Or was it truly an accident? I've been going out of my way, every afternoon, to the same Starbucks, for the same drink, to see the same girl. I usually have my roommate with me. But Wednesday my roommate is sick. I see...
BouncingPig
Xper 5 Age: 30 Does my good guy friend like me?
We have always been friends at school but for the past few months, we have actually started hanging out and finding out about eachother. I'm the only one who knows his biggest secrets. When I'm with him, I can just be...
meowcatwoman
Xper 7 Age: 30 Two loves, only one choice... Should I stay or should I go?
Some background info: 3 years ago I met "the love of my life", Jason. 10 years ago I met my best friend Marky. Now, Mark and I have never dated, never so much as expressed any feelings other than friendship towards each...
Anonymous
(36-45) Can we create an emoticon for "It doesn't mean a dang thing."
I like being able to give an answer to someone's question. I notice a lot of questions from girls pertaining to guys behavior, where they are trying to find meaning in the most insignificant of things. "If he turns his...
arthurdent
Xper 6 Age: 55 I'm a mess and I don't know what to do..help? [sort of a ramble fyi]
- this was going to be a blog post but I guess I'm just too scared to post it so I thought I'd leave it here to see if anyone here could help me make sense of my own brain :/ - what do you do when you like someone but...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it really that weird/egotistical to have over 1000 Facebook friends?
Recently I read that over half of the 22 year olds in the UK have over 1000 Facebook friends, so I searched on google to see what others thought of this. Of the first five forums I came across, almost everyone was saying...
huck13
Xper 5 Age: 31 Does he like me again?
We went on two dates, he ended it after the second date because he claimed he wasn't in a position to date anyone right now. A month later we start texting again (him mostly initiating) totally platonic texts. Then I...
jackie8614
Xper 5 Age: 40 