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I hooked up with a guy in summer but I was returning to my country the ending of that same summer. We developed feelings for each other hence the hook up. During the month that I was home, we remained talking normal but then it started to get a little strained. We both don't want a relationship as yet. I returned to his country and since I came back he has been moving extremely distant. Convos are HORRIBLE! He makes little effort to spend time with me unless he initiates it. We see each other at school but in our group of friends he acts like we never had anything going on. He doesn't want them knowing about us but still it's so awkward. The twist tho is that he is EXTREMELY JEALOUS of my male friends. Squirms at the sound of their names. When he does come over he is really chill and sort of normal like how he was in summer when I met him.

We are coworkers and at first use to text all the time. Hhe doesn't show his emotions at all he pretends he's super hard and doesn't need anyone and doesn't like anyone and doesn't need any girl. he has huge issues opening up to people and says he doesn't trust anyone and that when he trust people bad things happen. But u can tell he puts up a front. So recently we hung out and I gave him oral sex, he said I was the best oral sex he's ever received. And then after that he has been distant. Not distant but doesn't text first, he will answer me but just doesn't text first. I'd say he tried to hit and quit but he acts super shy and awkward with me and looks at me in a very lustful way and shy way and you can tell he is thinking I look sexy and likes me. You can TELL he likes me just by the way he acts when we are together. He invited me to hang out on his birthday because I asked. I then brought him a very expensive birthday gift and he looked extremely happy and like he liked me so much ( but quickly hid it) and just said you know your really great. Then I go home try and text him and he's rude again just not answering. It's like the more deep we get into eachother the more he just acts like he doesn't wanna talk. We agreed he'd have to tell me about his life if I got him a present ( I was gonna get him one anyway) he said okay but looked terrified, now he's ignoring me.

We are not very close, however I see him every now and again because our families are close and we somethings go on vacation together or sleepover at each other's houses. I was convinced he liked me for some time, many people were. However as of late I'm not so sure. He used to like all my Instagram photos and now rarely likes any. Things between us have just seemed distant and awkward recently... I think by unfollowing him, it will send a message. However because I have known him for so many years, I'm hesitant. Although our friendship is not the strongest, I do not want to destroy it completely or seem rude. I guess I figured if he doesn't like me, he won't mind. However last time I unfollowed him (which was many years ago) he inquired to me about it... Please help, what should I do?