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So say that there is girl you are sleeping with (be it an ex or girl you once dated or just a girl), but you knew she had feelings for you and you kept things vague besides saying you do care for her and you guys never clearly set the boundaries of having a bootycall/fuck buddy/fwb/casual sex relationship.
You put in little effort, but did bootycall her every weekend (sometimes two nights in a row), slept over with her, cuddled, very affectionate, and though she is responsible for agreeing a few of those times to have sex with you, you were only there for sex despite knowing how she felt.

Then one night when you bootycalled, she flat out told you that it's not cool for you to text her for sex only at your convenience.

1) Even if it were true, how would this make you feel and what would you respond (if anything)?

2) Would you feel differently if it was a girl you had a history with (esp. if she stood by you and put up with your shit) versus just a girl that you set up for sex off the bat?

I've been coming across this more and more, and it's such a pet peeve for me when people say that without even meeting the person. I get it for one night stands, but for anything where you have to see the person more than once, I feel like it would be polite to at least share a drink and a conversation before having the talk.

I prefer just going with the flow and seeing where it goes, if it ends up being friends with benefits, that's cool. But I don't like feeling like I'm put in a corner straight from the start, having to decide what my relationship (if any) with a person will be before I even meet them. Same goes with fuck buddy, or booty call, or anything that's longer than a one night stand.