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my friend harolds little brother ethan came out of the closet on Monday at school. he's 15. there are a lot of people that give him crap because they are homophobes. I personally think he was born that way. do you guys think that him being bi is a choice or that he was born that way. please leave a commment explaining why. it would be a big help for him

There was a girl I used to/still kinda crushing on. I crushed on her because she was nice to me, smiled alot, and occasionally touched my hands or thighs in friendly love. I figured if I was myself (open minded nice person in general) and took in interest in her likings, then maybe I could create some kind of connection between us.

The more I spoke to her, the more I found out about her. She loved to watch/listen to Korean pop music and idolized the singers. They weren't really special to me, but I bothered to memorized their names to make her happy. She also liked watching male Asian gay p*rn. I would normally be repulsed by it by I watched tons of gay p*rn with her to make her happy.

Throughout that time, she never showed more interest in me than just loving my company as a friend. Heck, she officially called me her best friend. I don't have a problem being her best friend, but I had feelings for her. I put my own choices and likes aside, but for what? To have horrible memories about watching gay p*rn and reading her erotic stories about male korean pop idols fucking...

I feel abused. I'm in love with my best friend and can't leave her. I confessed my love to her. She rejected me and told me to stay. She said no one else did the things I do for her, but she just can't see me as her bf.

Did I do something wrong throughout the way or was she never attracted to me romantically to begin with?

Okay, so you have the choice between A)

Being a gay house lover with millions of dollars at your disposal, your relationship is not open but you have secured your lover's heart and you will live comfortably for the rest of your life (except for the rough sex, he's a big man). For ladies, just imagine a butch who is 415 pounds with food in between her teeth, but she's extremely rich and dominant in the relationship.

B) You're Elliot Rodger and it's April, you already shot two women down as an act of misogyny and the sheriffs are on break, so you basically have a few minutes to live anyways.

A or B? Why or why not. Let's pretend you just gained consciousness in either of the two bodies, so you don't have a choice.

Here are the choices.

Church One: They accept homosexuality and believe God loves everyone. Gays should be free to pursue love and happiness, just as every other human being should have the freedom to do so.

Church Two: They condemn homosexuality and believe that homosexuals should be killed for choosing to openly live their lifestyle. They believe homosexuality is a choice and gays have chosen to disobey their God, thus condemning themselves to an eternity in Hell.

Which one really abides by the values and morals of Christianity?

I am a black man. I was born black. I can't change that. Homosexuals have told me that they were not born homosexual. They say that the homosexuals that say that only refer to the things in them that make them think there that way. But those same things are in some straight people and those straight people just ignore them. God made Adam and Eve. Not Adam and Steve. Women and men are designed to be together. Men have what women are attracted to by design and women have what men are attracted to by design. Men and women can reproduce with each other naturally because that is how God made us. Homosexuals cannot do these things. There are male and female animals. You don't see two male apes trying to mate or to female tigers trying to mate. Homosexuality is a choice, not something you have to do. I have no choice but to be black no matter what. Some homosexuals also tell me that they ignore the homosexual tendencies' and are straight. We all have tendencies to do wrong but it is just a matter if will ignore it and don't do it or not ignore it and give in. I am also a Christian. I have been hearing of homosexuals in the name of equal rights been forcing Christians to do things that are against there faith because their saying they have not been treated equally. I think Christians should treat homosexuals equally but when it comes to anything that is against the bible or promoting homosexuality, that is where the line should be drawn. So the bottom line to me is what trumps what. Does religious rights trump homosexual rights? Or Does homosexual rights trump religious rights? And when I say rights I mean rights that are the exact same for everyone everywhere in the united states. Example. Gay marriage is not okay every where in the united states. To me unless they make same sex rights the exact same as race and gender then there is no debate. God forbid they ever do that. That would probably mean the end to Christians exercising there beliefs as we know it.