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Although my fiancé works 6 days a week, when he gets home all he wants to do is relax and work on his business. We are both trying to start separate businesses in our spare time, lol, But we just bought a house, and a fixer upper 10 months ago and although I have single handedly painted every room, fixed broken walls, cleaned it to get it move in ready, etc etc etc I feel like he isn't and should be more invested in both the house and me.

And I feel like I am doing all of his responsibilities plus my own. I cook, clean, mow the lawn, fix the house, physically pay the bills and handle the finances though he chips in money, do the laundry, file his taxes every year, and the list goes on and on…all without his help or input, or even any sign of interest or initiative from him for anything (outside of his job and business and this includes sex!) - EVER.

Because of this we fight A LOT. And I can't understand it. He says he is tired, hates his job and doesn't have any time. But when something breaks in the house (its a fixer upper, so everythings falling apart), he doesn't even stop to fix it, he'll just let it rot. But for his business, he'll move mountains and drop everything. A house is a huge investment, so how can he not care about it?

To make matters worse, we are barely even having sex. In order to get some I have had to fight, beg, coerce, seduce. I have asked him if he wants to break up, and he says no, that he loves me, but just that he has no desire, with me or anyone. He says he thinks somethings wrong with him or his libido since he never thinks about sex, ever, not at work or even throughout the day!

He is 43, and I don't know what to do. I have contemplated very seriously about leaving. He says he doesn't know why he is like this, but knows something is wrong. I don't know if he's cheating, if he's over worked, stressed, just immature and lazy and just expects me to do everything forever. Maybe I need to be more understanding and patient?

So I have been seeing this guy for quite a while and recently he has wanted to cuddle more and more instead of having sex. I'm not complain as I enjoy both, but I just wanted some opinions on whether a guy wanting to cuddle is a good or bad sign? Like does it mean he is loosing interest or falling in love or just getting lazy? He doesn't seem to have lost interest in me, but maybe it's a first sign I'm missing...