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Meet a guy online and we fastly became very close, but he's never dated before and he's very busy with college and work! What should I do?

So I meet this guy through a moba game and we had a deep conversation even though we were on opposite teams. At the end of the match he sent me a friend request and I accepted. We proceded to play together. We'll fast...
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Should I hang out with him?

Hey guys, to cut things short, had a long distance relationship it failed because he was 15 and I was 18 in uni, he thought it was too much for him and did not want serious commitment and I couldn't do LD anymore.. too...
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Confirmation boyfriend had been sleeping with other girls when we were dating. What do I do?

My boyfriend & I have been together for three months now & things have been great, weve barely been apart-spending 4/5 nights a week together-meeting the family, spending Christmas & NY together, talking of holidays....
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Which of these options best describe you?

(From Lisa Firestone Ph. D.) Secure Attachment Style: Secure adults offer support when their partner feels distressed & go to their partner for comfort when they themselves feel troubled. Their relationship tends to...
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(From Lisa Firestone Ph. D.) Secure Attachment Style: Secure adults offer support when their partner feels distressed & go to their partner for comfort when they themselves feel Show More
I have a secure attachment style, and I have no mental illnesses
I have a secure attachment style, but probably have (undiagnosed) mental illness
I have a secure attachment style, yet have diagnosed mental illness
I have an insecure attachment style, but no mental illnesses
I have an insecure attachment style, and probably have (undiagnosed) mental illness
I have an insecure attachment style, and have diagnosed mental illness
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Is it my fault and does he hate me?

So I was friends with this guy ( lets call him apples) and like we were just friends, slightly close. Then this guy added a few of his guy friends from his school to our group. One of the guys there and I became friends...
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Does he hate me?

So I was friends with this guy ( lets call him apples) and like we were just friends, slightly close. Then this guy added a few of his guy friends from his school to our group. One of the guys there and I became friends...
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How should I act when I see him?

Hey guys, I recently wrote about my breakup here and to cut short, the reasons were mainly distance, wrong timing ( he was 15, I was 18...) he felt like he was still too young to have a serious LD relationship and didn't...
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Is it weird for a single guy to go to the movies with his married female friend alone?

This guy I like (who made it quite clear to me a while ago that he likes me too) has a married lady friend that is about his age. They hang out a lot now and he is more distant with me since then. They hang out a lot...
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What should I do to open my heart?

I'm someone who is introverted but i'm the wild one in my friend circle even when i don't go out much or love to do things alone people always look out for me (😂😂 it sounds kind of arogant) , my problem is not making...
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He's acting distant and I'm afraid he's going to end things?

I've been seeing this guy for 2 months now. I already had a crush on him and I told him about it. Then we just started to hang out etc. But now I feel like things aren't going anywhere, it's almost a deadlock...
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Do you ignore them if you like them?

He is a very close friend! But lately we have been distant because he is busy he just started training at this place and while i try to be there for him 24/7 and support him he like shows half the interest that i show but...
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Could I have ruined a potential romance?

my guy friend and i are pretty close, we went on a couple dates and it involved holding hands, arm around the shoulder, and kiss when he dropped me off. We used to talk all the time id say about 4 times a week at least...
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Do guys ever get this way?

Are guys ever scared to get too close to a girl because she might hurt him? If so, does this make them become more distant?
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I'm terrified of falling in love or having someone fall in love with me?

Just seeing how people in relationships are and the pain and suffering along with mood swings etc it just terrifies me that someone is capable of making me feel that way. I've had feelings for guys before and it used to...
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Have I been lead on by my ex?

My ex and I broke up a month ago because he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and he needed to focus on himself and get himself together (financial problems, stress etc.) I told him I understand and I'll still be...
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LONG READ! Did he lead me on? Is completely over for us?

My ex and I broke up about a month ago because he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and he needed to focus on himself and get himself together (financial problems, stress etc.) I told him I understand and I'll...
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Is this worth pursuing?

I've been seeing a girl for 2 months. she's a single mother and works full time. When i first started talking to her i found she was being evasive when i mentioned meeting up. She said that she's always busy and struggles...
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I've been seeing a girl for 2 months. she's a single mother and works full time. When i first started talking to her i found she was being evasive when i mentioned meeting up. She said Show More
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If a guy starts telling more people about him liking you, is that a sign he’s getting serious about asking you out?

Long story short, the guy I like became distant and he seemed more negative. I figured he was going through stuff so I gave him space. It’s been a few months. His close friends already knew he likes me but now my guy...
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10 Places In The U. S. That Feel Like Another Country

We all know the U.S. is a land of diversity. But some places are so culturally different from the rest of the country, that they might as well be separate countries. Here are 10 places that will make you forget you're in...
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My boyfriends best friend has a crush on me?

So, my boyfriend of 4 years has recently became really close to a guy and they are practically best friends. They have been hanging out more and more the past year going to different leagues together (that I did not...
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