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Me and my ex were together for just over a year and practically living together. We did a lot together - he helped me lose weight, get my drivers licence, and came with me to doctors appointments. We did a lot of firsts together and had/ have a great connection.
He went to jail for 3 months and I waited for him and he was appreciative and happy and was calling me everyday telling me he loves me and was talking about making future plans - we were getting serious and his mom even invited me over for Jewish Passover holiday. Now during the month of June we had quite a few fights over stupid stuff like what I should wear when we go out, my diet and I was also getting irritated when he was on his phone a lot and he was getting overly sensitive anytime I wanted to go back to my house for 3 days and then come back to him. He was scared of me leaving him and he also felt unappreciated , but I always showed him I cared for him - like going to the hospital everyday when he had surgery. Now he starts dating someone who is totally the opposite of me exactly 2 days after we broke up and after 3 weeks they are saying “I love you” to each other. But he says he still wants to work stufff out & possibly get back together. He still kisses me and has me sleeping over at his place during the week and only sees this girl on weekends, but he tells me he doesn’t have history with her like he does with me... and says he needs time and doesn’t prefer her over me right now and that it depends on me and doesn’t know what he wants to do. She’s a dark gothic girl and he’s a classy type of a guy who wears suits and likes to be well dressed and she’s way taller than him and is the total opposite of me - I’m sweet and sensitive, she’s the psycho angry aggressive type and dresses like a punk rocker - totally different from me!
Also it moved very quick - after 3 or 4 weeks saying that they are in love?
Is he in a rebound relationship? And is there a chance for me and him to be back together?

I’ve been with my boyfriend “Adam” for two years. I honestly ignored lots of red flags... He’s on dating apps (ie, badoo, tinder, etc), he has also sexually abused me, but all you need to know is that he doesn’t treat me well at all...
Within the 1 year mark, I met an online friend “James” in real life and have hung out with him several times. Ever since we met he’s been wanting a relationship with me. Looking back he has treated me probably better than any other guy and he and I do believe he loved me. Long story short, James got a new girlfriend roughly 2 weeks ago. I got into a huge fight with him which resulted in him blocking me on Snapchat and me blocking him on FB. I broke up with Adam on June 6, and on June 7 James broke up with his girlfriend because she’s falsely accusing him of hitting/attacking her and she’s trying to bring the police and court system involved. She also kicked James out of her car and stranded him for over 10 miles. Despite being together for 2 weeks, it looks like they broke up 4 times and she seems unstable as she has two kids and falsely accused her ex-husband/baby daddy of abusing her. Yesterday she wrote a long post about James basically calling herself out saying that she did indeed make up those false abuse accusations, and James commented saying that she is forgiven and that he's trying to move on. I want to reach out to James and apologize/tell my feelings/ be in relationship. Advice?