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I am talking to this guy I met from OKC for around 2 weeks. Before we met in person, we FaceTimed and spoke on the phone for hours. When we met in person, we went on a date to a fine dining location and we discussed prior to meeting up to possibly go play video games at his pad. I say pad because he is a truck driver that recently moved from another location and is still residing in the truck. The inside looks like a tiny room. After the date, we went to this truck and relaxed. He asked to kiss me.

We ended up making out and it got pretty hot (in my opinion at least). He is not a virgin and I still am. I am not necessarily saying that I am going to wait until marriage but I wanted to know worst case scenario if he would. And he said no because he believes a partner should have sex before marriage to confirm there is a legitimate intimacy connection.

He told his mom about me and I asked him when he was going to delete his OKC profile during the date because he seemed to like me. And we both deleted our profiles together.

We hung out the next day because it was New Year’s Eve. I asked 1st because I thought he would want to do something. If I was okay relaxing, he was okay with me coming over and playing video games again.

That turned into second base for me and he wanted to go down on me but I wasn’t ready. Anytime I said stop depending on my mood or feeling, he listens and we talk. He drove over an hr to see me for the first date and said he is willing to take 2 days off a week to spend time together. He also invited me to go on a cruise with him for his birthday because he has a time share.

He says he only believes in titles when it comes time to address a woman to other people. But he said he does consider me his girlfriend because he is only seeing me and we are intimate. But he said if the title is too soon for me, there is no rush. There is no rush for sex either. Am I being played? He says I have nothing to worry about but I don’t trust men 😶.

So I met this guy from online. And we started talking for around 2 weeks. We had our first date last Saturday (if that’s what you want to call it). I felt a connection with him and we held hands on the date and such. After the date, even prior to the date, we talked about video games and how he has his semi truck that he lives in for the time being because he is a truck driver. We brought up playing video games after the date. After the restaurant, we went to his pad and while he started the game system, he asked to kiss me. Long story short:
We ended up making out and it felt pretty hot. I am a virgin and I do not necessarily want to wait until marriage. I feel as if I’m ready if it’s with the right guy. And I asked him if he was willing to wait and he said no. It’s not apparently only due to his sex drive, he believes a couple should have sex before marriage to confirm there is a strong intimate connection. I asked him how long does he generally wait before he makes someone his girlfriend and he says labels are an external thing (as in how he’d address the person to other people). But he said, he would considered me his girlfriend because he is apparently seeing me exclusively and we are/ were intimate. Is he fucking around with me?

So me and my friends are hosting a house party for new years eve
I invited my boyfriend to come along
I told him to dress nicely and all because we are all dressing nice esp the girls
And then he asked me what i would be wearing
I told him ill be wearing a revealing dress that shows my cleavage
He told me to take a photo of me wearing the dress
So i did
I sent it to him and this was our convo:
Him - aww *laughs* u look cute
Me - CUTE?
Him - yeah u look cute?
Me - i dont wanna look cute. I wanna look HOT. I think I look hot!
Him - umm okay... yeah u look hot?
Me - so u dont think it looks good on me?
Him - no babe u look pretty seriously.. its just that I would not call u hot.. you're not a toy. you're my girlfriend. I dont like saying the word HOT when it comes to my girlfriend. you're more cute and beautiful.
Me - whatever.. when i wear that dress on the street, guys are not gonna think i look cute. They gonna think i look sexy
Him - yeah i know that they will say you look hot. I just dont wanna say you're hot coz you're my girlfriend. If i didn't know u and saw u on the street, then yeah i will say you're hot.
Im so confused
Does he think im attractive or what?
Should i be upset about this?
I was trying to look HOT for him.. farout.. not cute 😤😤