Search Results: how should i tell him i fell in love

What do I have to do not to lose her?

Hi, I'm 19 y. o. and I met a girl at the party like 2 months ago. One month later of happy relationship I graduated and had to find a job to have some money. I was very stressed because I couldn't find anything...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I tell her? Will it break things?

So I fell in love with my best friend five years ago, went though an intense heartache due to the knowledge of her already being with someone. We used to commute on the same bus twice a week. This was at the time I...

JHNS98

Explorer Age: 27

Why haven’t I moved on? or have I?

Hey Everyone, I’m going into my senior in high school but let me give a refresher. I fell head over this boy while We was living in the same state. . Once I moved he told me his feeling and the word “ I love you.” At...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Is this cheating and can I use it against someone three years later?

Knew this guy for over five years now. Since the beginning we spoke about marriage and stuff. Two years on we decided to see each other more often but I don’t think he thought it was a relationship in the beginning. In...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I thought he was falling for me after sex; until he asked me for love advice for him and another woman. What should I do now?

I told my friend a while ago that I liked him more than just a friend. He told me that he only liked me as just a friend. It hurt, but I accepted it. We were drunk one night and had sex. We both enjoyed it and after...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I tell her how I feel?

I'm in love with my best friend. Me and her had this friends with benefits thing going on for a bit but she was also with other guys too. She found out she was pregnant (not mine) and we grew a lot closer because I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Help I need to decode him?

A guy in our college was interested in me i dint know that and unintentionally made him jealous and then he did that to me I fell for another guy later and contacted that guy and again made him jealous unintentionally a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Falling in Love on GaG

Falling in love on GaG Online Love Happens Have you ever found yourself wondering, could I find love on GaG? GaG isn't actually a dating site it's a social site. However, I personally know some couples who met and fell...

Wowgirl30q

Editor Age: 37

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Break Up & Divorce

Why might be the reason for him breaking up with me? will he come back? what must I do?

So me and my recent ex has been dating for like 4 months but we knew each other since last year , he has his girlfriend and I didn’t want to date him by then. His girlfriend was continuously cheating on him , she hurt...

vanessa_reigns

Xper 2 Age: 26

Guys, What should I do in situations when the guy is confused about us?

Guy became my friend, we flirted/bantered, then he got serious with his approach and eventually I fell in love. I gave my virginity to him and then... he ghosted me for a month. I sent him messages to talk to me, tell me...

topumasum

Xper 4 Age: 32

Is he too scared to approach or ulterior motive?

there's a guys who have been loving me for two years (others told me he threw signs and stuff) at first he tried to hide it and he thought I like his friend then he tried to make me jealous several times he threw shade at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How should I tell him I love him?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10.5 months. I’d honestly have to say that I fell in love with him about 3 or 4 months into our relationship. I didn’t tell him as I kind of hoped

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10.5 months.
I’d honestly have to say that I fell in love with him about 3 or 4 months into our relationship.
I didn’t tell him as I kind of hoped he’d say it first.
He treated me so well, was so thoughtful, and made me feel precious.
At about the 6 month mark, he actually told me that he “wasn’t sure” if he loved me yet.
He’s a pragmatic person, operates at a head level, more than on an emotional level.
Coming from him, it didn’t surprise me that he said this.
However it was disapointing, so I put my feelings on hold, and went into a bit of a self protective mode.
We’ve both also had some very stressful things occur, such as him currently being out of work, and my own job being incredibly stressful.
This has placed stress on the relationship, and we’ve taken it out on each other in different ways.
I've also felt frustrated with him, wondering where the relationship is going. I’m 32, turning 33 this year. I want marriage and kids.
He wants these things too.
He recently said that he’s at a 7-8 out of 10 with me at the moment (10 being proposal). But the big question is - will we ever get to a 10.
He then pointed out that neither of us have used the “love” word yet, and pointed out that it could be an issue.
I then admitted that I’d been in this “self protective mode”.
He then suggested that my self protective mode had possibly sabotaged the relationship.
We both agreed that we need to make a decision soon. Either move forward and get engaged, or break up. As we’re not getting any younger.
So we really need to figure things out.

I still love him.
I've realised that I need to tell him, regardless of whether he loves me or not.

Im nervous to tell him, so I’ve written my thoughts out on paper. I’m wanting to read it out to him. It seems to be the only way I can clearly express myself without chickening out.
I’m also a very good writer, and express myself well this way.
Or is that a bad idea?
should I just spontaneously tell him instead?

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I feel like he's being distant and it's making me insecure, what should I do?

I met my boyfriend on a month holiday, we fell in love and extended the trip together one and a half months more. After the trip he continued travelling one month and I had to head back home, but while being together we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Should I cut off my friends with benefits?

My friend with benefits is barely a friend. We haven't known each other for a long time but we do trust one another. Like I can't depend on him for anything but a good time in bed but thats all I ever expected out of our...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can I start to relax a little with him now?

Some of you have been following my anonymous polyamorus boyfriend story for a bit. Here is what is going on. Recap : I fell in love with a guy who claimed to be polyamorus, but had only ever been in monogomous...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Me and my boyfriend are on a different page in our lives. Can it work?

I've made everything I could to be ready to settle down and raise a family if I wanted to. I'm not saying it has to happen in the near future, but I wouldn't mind if it did. At first my boyfriend told me he had a...

feistynfit

Xper 4 Age: 31

Should I go to Japan to make up with her?

I met this girl when i was 19 at a party. I was still a virgin and my friends had set up a plan for me to lose my virginity with her because the rumours were that she was great in bed and up for anything. We got...

Anonymous

(25-29)